"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Observation: the best sex happens when it's "not allowed"

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Some of the most raunchy, hot sex I've had has been...
- In public
- With her family in the next room, no lock on the door
- Interrupting her last minute packing (and having her miss the train)
- Before everyone at the party heads out to hit the town, "helping with her make-up" in the bathroom

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i dunno. im a virgin.
 
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handle said:
Some of the most raunchy, hot sex I've had has been...
- In public
- With her family in the next room, no lock on the door
- Interrupting her last minute packing (and having her miss the train)
- Before everyone at the party heads out to hit the town, "helping with her make-up" in the bathroom

Agree? Disagree?
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Was I wrong for passing this up multiple times
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This is also why cheating is so fun. People often screw others they wouldn't dream of touching if they were single and the rush wasn't there.
 
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Totally agree with you. I've done the first two. and They're definitely my favourite. You feel so badass after and it's definitely an confidence boost.
 
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I agree with the OP. It seems like I also get more turned on, and get off harder, when there is a degree of inappropriateness (is that a word?) involved. Just a week ago I banged my ex-brother-in-law's baby mama. They are not together, and haven't been in over a year, but if my ex wife's family found out there WOULD be drama! To top it off, I probably wouldn't give this chick the time of day otherwise. It was just close enough to cheating, or whatever else, to make it hot to me. Now if I could just get her to stop texting me......... ;)
 
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Dante420 said:
Was I wrong for passing this up multiple times
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It's okay, I tried having a reasonable "you realize your dad's just down the hall and will definitely hear you moan" discussion the first times too but the further down her head went the less interested I got in weighing the pros and cons. Next time!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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