"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Deaf guy

Yes that is right there is a deaf guy that I know that is pulling a hb9. When I first seen this guy I thought of him as a high value guy because of the way he is dressed and carried himself. Had his own style. (Had a design in his hair)

Later on I'm realizing he is deaf and doing sign language, then I see him doing some next signs. (Either dancing or fuking) When I look its a hb9 that is there messing with him. In my head I'm thinking wow even the deaf can pull.

So I'm really sold on anyone can pull, from that wheel chair guy that DYD knows all the way to this deaf guy. Funny thing is I want this hb9 too.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Anyone can pull it is true. So we should all go do it. Just be in your own and take control.
 

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He was deaf...so what? Seduction is mostly body language anyways. I mean it is a barrier of course, but it's not so surprising. It's not like he looked like a goblin.
 
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original poster, why are you not telling people the whole truth?

yes, ANYONE can pull, that part is true, but you forget about the CHANCES of pulling

a guy with alot of good things going for him has a infinitely better chance of pulling a good girl when compared to a guy who's got nothin going for him

(example being, a guy who has a good job and is hot, when compared to an ugly unemployed guy)

hot rich guy chance of pulling = 80%

ugly unemployed = 5%

YES ANYONE CAN PULL, BUT YOU NEED TO LOOK AT HOW LIKELY IT WILL HAPPEN

1/1000 deaf guys can get a hot girl, GREAT, who cares????
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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All The Answers said:
original poster, why are you not telling people the whole truth?

yes, ANYONE can pull, that part is true, but you forget about the CHANCES of pulling

a guy with alot of good things going for him has a infinitely better chance of pulling a good girl when compared to a guy who's got nothin going for him

(example being, a guy who has a good job and is hot, when compared to an ugly unemployed guy)

hot rich guy chance of pulling = 80%

ugly unemployed = 5%

YES ANYONE CAN PULL, BUT YOU NEED TO LOOK AT HOW LIKELY IT WILL HAPPEN

1/1000 deaf guys can get a hot girl, GREAT, who cares????
It's funny because in my life, I personally know guys who have nothing and pull. It's funny because if you were in my social circle and seen some of the guys I hang with who pull. It would seem mind boggling. Even girls I speak to are always shocked that some of my friends even fuk girls.

Have you ever seen Keys to the vip, the eposide where its a guy in a green shirt who has nothing, he only lives on his friends couch. An his opponent was some good looking pretty boy. In the end the guy with the green shirt you could tell he had WAY more game than him. An not because of his outer game its because this guy was so fuking unreactive that he sucks girls in.

It's similar to my game, I don't consider myself good looking. (Although some people want me to do male modeling as a side job) But I've bust my ass working on my inner game. An you know what I noticed within a month...

- I get approached by women once in awhile
- Every girl I approach opens up, because I have my whole mind together
- People view me as a high value person, I'm a person people want to get validation from
- People get sucked into my reality without me really doing anything

It's a whole mind shift when you realize that there isn't anything different when approaching a girl who is a 10 and a girl who is a 6. They have the emotion of "Attraction", same female psychology, same insecurity, etc. At the end of the day its understandable how anyone can pull girls constantly, because it comes down to how you convey your personality.

ATTRACTION and ATTRACTIVE is TWO different things. They are different. Guys who do PU get girls because of "ATTRACTION" and guys who are just good looking and atleast decent game get girls because of being "ATTRACTIVE"

Attraction is an emotional state
Attractive is a physical trait (Good looking face, ripped abs, well dressed, etc)

Once you realize that and actually implement it there is no way you should be saying a certain guy has a different chance% than another, because what one of them can do another person can do also.

Funny thing is before I even met this deaf guy I remember I used to try approaching women without saying a word, and it would surely open up. After about 5 minutes they would be dieing because they realize I'm not actually different and since they were already having fun before I even talked they open up great.

It's all in you head but you'll realize one day hopefully.
 
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