"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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phil2015

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Hi

Been texting a girl for a few weeks, and recently she's gone ultra distant.

She only replies/text me when I text her first and I feel like I have to provoke or initiate a response?

Am I wasting my time with this?

Opinions guys please
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LuckyStrike88

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There can be a thousand reasons for her to do that, of course you first thought can be that she lost interest. Usually it is best to take your distance and let her come to you, then when she comes back act like she is doing now. Turns the whole situation around. There's no way to fix this by saying the perfect thing at a stage like this, only to pull back in this way and go on with your life.
 
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What LuckyStrike said. You do the same. She pulls back 10 feet, you pull back a mile. Maybe she'll come back, maybe she won't. But chasing like a lost puppy isn't going to do much for you.
 
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She's responding when you initiate, so ask her to meet up and try to escalate things in person. If she declines and doesn't counter, forget about her.

Either way stop initiating things and gving her attention unless it's to meet up or you're explaining what you're going to do to her.
 
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