"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Obscessive Psycho ***** Plz HELP

The_Shnitz

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ok, so i have boned a goth. Im not proud of it but i did, i have made it very clear to her before doing her that we are FRIENDS and that we are not going to have a relationship. SHe tells me 'fine' but then goes on about relationships and basically how she wants one with me. She says that i am the only guy on campus that she likes, she thinks im fantastic basically. I play guitar in a band and she has seen me, she basically thinks im a weird fuccked up goth just like her, WHICH IM NOT. She texts me about 5 times a day EVERY DAY. jesus christ, im not making this up but she has JUST TEXT ME AGAIN. ANyway, i dont want this chick in my life, when we have been out she has kicked and punched and even, yes, head butted me and done similar stunts to my friend. She says that she 'loves violence' and her favorate passtime is kicking guys in the balls. I am the second guy she has slept with so i dont wanna be an ******* to her, but I WANT RID OF HER. What do i do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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OneArmDeeJay

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First off there is nothing wrong with a Goth person as a person.

I don’t dig the look but doesn’t mean they are horrible people.

Second why are you hanging around this girl not alone fvcking her if you don’t like Goth people or her?

That just plain stupid right there.

My guess you played on her weakness so you could gratified your needs.

There’s one thing if you do a girl and she gets all attach and you just want her as a Fvck Buddy. But it’s another if you just play her and lead her on one way to get a quick fix and then drop her like a rock.

You should have made your intentions clear from the beginning.

If you don’t want her or have anything to do with her then tell her that.

And mean it. Don’t hang around her don’t call her up or anything.

Don’t be a pvssy and try to think up lame excuses or lame C&F to tell her off.

Be a man and stop being like those cold-hearted b1tchs out there.
 

The_Shnitz

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dude, i did make it plain that we are not in a relationship, i made it very plain...perhaps i need to make it plainer. Also, i have no problem with goths, or i didnt have a problem with goths but now i see them in a different light. Of course they are not all psychos, anyway you are right, im probably being a jerk. I need to tell her in no uncertain words what the deal is.
 

italostud

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Awesome dude. You just gave me my new sig! lol
 

The_Shnitz

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Also, i did want her as a **** buddy, but because she texts me so much i feel bad about that because she seems to like me so much. She wanted me to have a drink with her tonight.. I text her saying 'we need to talk about a few things, do you feel like going for a walk?' SHe has not text back.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by The_Shnitz
She says that she 'loves violence' and her favorate passtime is kicking guys in the balls.

:eek: :eek: :eek: Uhm, run? :D
 

Desdinova

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This one's easy...

she has kicked and punched and even, yes, head butted me and done similar stunts to my friend
Get a goddam restraining order or press charges against her. You shouldn't have to put up with that kind of 5hit.
 

LongDrinkofWater

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Man, actions speak louder than words. If you really want to end it for good, just ignore her. Eventually she'll get the message. You can probably forget her as a f()ck buddy, because she's too emotionally attached to you already. Could be that her goth look (and masochistic behavior) is making good penis repellent...........
 

Joe The Homophobe

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You really have a problem on your hands buddy. So not only is she a psycho b1tch and obsessed with you, but she is a goth as well! now that is one dangerous combination! If I were you I would wear a jock strap to protect the valuables incase she wants to kick you in the balls!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by The_Shnitz
She says that she 'loves violence' and her favorate passtime is kicking guys in the balls.
Is this hor for real? Why didnt you reply with "yeah? what a coincedence cause my favourite passtime is giving immature attention craving goths whos foot comes anywhere near my balls a painful case of mastitis."

it amazes me what some of these self entitled cvnts think they can get away with.
 
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PRMoon

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I f*cked a goth girl in one of the real world suites at the palms. It was cool and then I never saw her again...that was a good night.

If you don't want to be with her man up and just tell her. If you want to try to do it in a good way and salvage a friend relationship out of it, then so be it. If not then just set her straight with how you feel and move on with your lives...case closed.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LoveBOT

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Originally posted by The_Shnitz
ok, so i have boned a goth. Im not proud of it but i did, i have made it very clear to her before doing her that we are FRIENDS and that we are not going to have a relationship. SHe tells me 'fine' but then goes on about relationships and basically how she wants one with me. She says that i am the only guy on campus that she likes, she thinks im fantastic basically. I play guitar in a band and she has seen me, she basically thinks im a weird fuccked up goth just like her, WHICH IM NOT. She texts me about 5 times a day EVERY DAY. jesus christ, im not making this up but she has JUST TEXT ME AGAIN. ANyway, i dont want this chick in my life, when we have been out she has kicked and punched and even, yes, head butted me and done similar stunts to my friend. She says that she 'loves violence' and her favorate passtime is kicking guys in the balls. I am the second guy she has slept with so i dont wanna be an ******* to her, but I WANT RID OF HER. What do i do?

PFFFF tell her to **** off...anyhow that's NOTHING,try having a 4ft midget stalk you everywhere and txt you all the time and then get her friends onto you for not being with her.
 
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