"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Obscessive Psycho ***** Plz HELP

The_Shnitz

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ok, so i have boned a goth. Im not proud of it but i did, i have made it very clear to her before doing her that we are FRIENDS and that we are not going to have a relationship. SHe tells me 'fine' but then goes on about relationships and basically how she wants one with me. She says that i am the only guy on campus that she likes, she thinks im fantastic basically. I play guitar in a band and she has seen me, she basically thinks im a weird fuccked up goth just like her, WHICH IM NOT. She texts me about 5 times a day EVERY DAY. jesus christ, im not making this up but she has JUST TEXT ME AGAIN. ANyway, i dont want this chick in my life, when we have been out she has kicked and punched and even, yes, head butted me and done similar stunts to my friend. She says that she 'loves violence' and her favorate passtime is kicking guys in the balls. I am the second guy she has slept with so i dont wanna be an ******* to her, but I WANT RID OF HER. What do i do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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OneArmDeeJay

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First off there is nothing wrong with a Goth person as a person.

I don’t dig the look but doesn’t mean they are horrible people.

Second why are you hanging around this girl not alone fvcking her if you don’t like Goth people or her?

That just plain stupid right there.

My guess you played on her weakness so you could gratified your needs.

There’s one thing if you do a girl and she gets all attach and you just want her as a Fvck Buddy. But it’s another if you just play her and lead her on one way to get a quick fix and then drop her like a rock.

You should have made your intentions clear from the beginning.

If you don’t want her or have anything to do with her then tell her that.

And mean it. Don’t hang around her don’t call her up or anything.

Don’t be a pvssy and try to think up lame excuses or lame C&F to tell her off.

Be a man and stop being like those cold-hearted b1tchs out there.
 

The_Shnitz

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dude, i did make it plain that we are not in a relationship, i made it very plain...perhaps i need to make it plainer. Also, i have no problem with goths, or i didnt have a problem with goths but now i see them in a different light. Of course they are not all psychos, anyway you are right, im probably being a jerk. I need to tell her in no uncertain words what the deal is.
 

italostud

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Awesome dude. You just gave me my new sig! lol
 

The_Shnitz

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Also, i did want her as a **** buddy, but because she texts me so much i feel bad about that because she seems to like me so much. She wanted me to have a drink with her tonight.. I text her saying 'we need to talk about a few things, do you feel like going for a walk?' SHe has not text back.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by The_Shnitz
She says that she 'loves violence' and her favorate passtime is kicking guys in the balls.

:eek: :eek: :eek: Uhm, run? :D
 

Desdinova

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This one's easy...

she has kicked and punched and even, yes, head butted me and done similar stunts to my friend
Get a goddam restraining order or press charges against her. You shouldn't have to put up with that kind of 5hit.
 

LongDrinkofWater

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Man, actions speak louder than words. If you really want to end it for good, just ignore her. Eventually she'll get the message. You can probably forget her as a f()ck buddy, because she's too emotionally attached to you already. Could be that her goth look (and masochistic behavior) is making good penis repellent...........
 

Joe The Homophobe

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You really have a problem on your hands buddy. So not only is she a psycho b1tch and obsessed with you, but she is a goth as well! now that is one dangerous combination! If I were you I would wear a jock strap to protect the valuables incase she wants to kick you in the balls!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by The_Shnitz
She says that she 'loves violence' and her favorate passtime is kicking guys in the balls.
Is this hor for real? Why didnt you reply with "yeah? what a coincedence cause my favourite passtime is giving immature attention craving goths whos foot comes anywhere near my balls a painful case of mastitis."

it amazes me what some of these self entitled cvnts think they can get away with.
 
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PRMoon

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I f*cked a goth girl in one of the real world suites at the palms. It was cool and then I never saw her again...that was a good night.

If you don't want to be with her man up and just tell her. If you want to try to do it in a good way and salvage a friend relationship out of it, then so be it. If not then just set her straight with how you feel and move on with your lives...case closed.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by The_Shnitz
ok, so i have boned a goth. Im not proud of it but i did, i have made it very clear to her before doing her that we are FRIENDS and that we are not going to have a relationship. SHe tells me 'fine' but then goes on about relationships and basically how she wants one with me. She says that i am the only guy on campus that she likes, she thinks im fantastic basically. I play guitar in a band and she has seen me, she basically thinks im a weird fuccked up goth just like her, WHICH IM NOT. She texts me about 5 times a day EVERY DAY. jesus christ, im not making this up but she has JUST TEXT ME AGAIN. ANyway, i dont want this chick in my life, when we have been out she has kicked and punched and even, yes, head butted me and done similar stunts to my friend. She says that she 'loves violence' and her favorate passtime is kicking guys in the balls. I am the second guy she has slept with so i dont wanna be an ******* to her, but I WANT RID OF HER. What do i do?

PFFFF tell her to **** off...anyhow that's NOTHING,try having a 4ft midget stalk you everywhere and txt you all the time and then get her friends onto you for not being with her.
 
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