"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Objective: When a Captain Save-a-Bro Mission "goes wrong...lol"

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Yo Troops,

It's been a minute since I've visited the So Suave forum (as my own "One Man War" continues to be waged over @ my own site).

However, lately I have been in a very nostalgic mood. I have MANY memories of the Golden Age of So Suave where myself and many, Many, MANY men used to come here multiple times a day to ask questions, ANSWER questions, and to, on occasion:

Start a War or two...

For instance, to some of you newer So Suave soldiers, I'd like to inform you that his is actual the 11-year anniversary of a mission we undertook wayyyyyy back in in the day (2008?).

A group of us So Suave Vets once staged a daring attack on another forum called Love Shack.

It was a RAID.

Our objective was to:
  1. Invade that website
  2. Drop a series of surgical strike "Knowledge Bombs"
  3. and free as many misinformed, confused, and low self-esteemed guys as we could from Male/Female Dating Dynamics Ignorance.

Ours was a BOLD mission.

Our Intent was honorable.

But as the mission went on, our exploits went from War...to Horror...to Comedy, and ultimately to a Learned Lesson about how a Captain Save-a-Bro Mission can go wrong...lol

And that specific Lesson Learned was:


A Man has to WANT to be free, before he can experience the BENEFITS of Freedom.

Yes, before it was over, the Admins actually had to wind up shutting down the thread to prevent bad blood between the owners of the two websites----and so, the thread ultimately just got lost in the annals of So Suave Website War History.

And although that particular the thread can no longer be resurrected---I did some Recon and managed to find it and paste the link to it here:

The Great So Suave vs. Love Shack War!

So if any of you newer soldiers wanted to see what it was like being in the So Suave Army "back in the day"---you can learn from our ultimately "hilarious" mistakes. In this thread, you'll recognize MANY of our names and/or code-names that are now known all over the Internet these days.

But THIS is how it all began...

This is OUR origin story...lol

And for all of you VETERANS who are still here---and who were serving with me on that mission (you know who you are...):

Please take a little time to "relive" some of our Glory Days from yesteryear. Because I'm sure you'll be just as amused as I am by a lot of the memories that that old thread will bring up.

Much PEACE and RESPECT to you all.

V.U.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I remember lurking ss when I was a younge teenager, chit was so gangster I didn't even say anything <3
 

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Yo Commander Karma,

Good of you to check-in, my brother! Yeah, there are plenty of stories many of us could tell about those earlier days of So Suave Shenanigans... LOL

And Chev,

Yes. Back in those days, this place was just like the Wild, Wild West:

No self-respecting civilized person could hang around here for long WITHOUT getting caught up in the craziness themselves...eventually.

It was wild times---but good times.

V.U.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This is absolutely legendary.

Thanks for sharing.
 

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Hell yeah!

I imagine that we were "right" in our intent to invade that site. At the end of that war, we probably encouraged as many trolls as we drafted new recruits.

Some of the female trolls came over here to "invade us in return" and some came over to "pretend" to be interested in "our ways" ( probably just to be attention ho's...lol)

But we also got a handful of guys over here that actually benefited from our internet invasion foolishness. So, if I got a chance to do it all over again---I wouldn't change a thing!

V. U.
 
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