"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Objective: When a Captain Save-a-Bro Mission "goes wrong...lol"

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Yo Troops,

It's been a minute since I've visited the So Suave forum (as my own "One Man War" continues to be waged over @ my own site).

However, lately I have been in a very nostalgic mood. I have MANY memories of the Golden Age of So Suave where myself and many, Many, MANY men used to come here multiple times a day to ask questions, ANSWER questions, and to, on occasion:

Start a War or two...

For instance, to some of you newer So Suave soldiers, I'd like to inform you that his is actual the 11-year anniversary of a mission we undertook wayyyyyy back in in the day (2008?).

A group of us So Suave Vets once staged a daring attack on another forum called Love Shack.

It was a RAID.

Our objective was to:
  1. Invade that website
  2. Drop a series of surgical strike "Knowledge Bombs"
  3. and free as many misinformed, confused, and low self-esteemed guys as we could from Male/Female Dating Dynamics Ignorance.

Ours was a BOLD mission.

Our Intent was honorable.

But as the mission went on, our exploits went from War...to Horror...to Comedy, and ultimately to a Learned Lesson about how a Captain Save-a-Bro Mission can go wrong...lol

And that specific Lesson Learned was:


A Man has to WANT to be free, before he can experience the BENEFITS of Freedom.

Yes, before it was over, the Admins actually had to wind up shutting down the thread to prevent bad blood between the owners of the two websites----and so, the thread ultimately just got lost in the annals of So Suave Website War History.

And although that particular the thread can no longer be resurrected---I did some Recon and managed to find it and paste the link to it here:

The Great So Suave vs. Love Shack War!

So if any of you newer soldiers wanted to see what it was like being in the So Suave Army "back in the day"---you can learn from our ultimately "hilarious" mistakes. In this thread, you'll recognize MANY of our names and/or code-names that are now known all over the Internet these days.

But THIS is how it all began...

This is OUR origin story...lol

And for all of you VETERANS who are still here---and who were serving with me on that mission (you know who you are...):

Please take a little time to "relive" some of our Glory Days from yesteryear. Because I'm sure you'll be just as amused as I am by a lot of the memories that that old thread will bring up.

Much PEACE and RESPECT to you all.

V.U.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I remember lurking ss when I was a younge teenager, chit was so gangster I didn't even say anything <3
 

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Yo Commander Karma,

Good of you to check-in, my brother! Yeah, there are plenty of stories many of us could tell about those earlier days of So Suave Shenanigans... LOL

And Chev,

Yes. Back in those days, this place was just like the Wild, Wild West:

No self-respecting civilized person could hang around here for long WITHOUT getting caught up in the craziness themselves...eventually.

It was wild times---but good times.

V.U.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This is absolutely legendary.

Thanks for sharing.
 

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Hell yeah!

I imagine that we were "right" in our intent to invade that site. At the end of that war, we probably encouraged as many trolls as we drafted new recruits.

Some of the female trolls came over here to "invade us in return" and some came over to "pretend" to be interested in "our ways" ( probably just to be attention ho's...lol)

But we also got a handful of guys over here that actually benefited from our internet invasion foolishness. So, if I got a chance to do it all over again---I wouldn't change a thing!

V. U.
 
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