"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Obesity/fat pandemic in USA has destroyed the chances of healthy weight mid men getting healthy weight mid women

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This healthy-weight Mid guy in America only got a Mid/looksmatch from a different nation - Uganda. His matches in USA were all obese/fat.

Before you all say he needs to change his hat and iron his t-shirt collar - it doesn't mean he wears those on a dating app.

 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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This healthy-weight Mid guy in America only got a Mid/looksmatch from a different nation - Uganda. His matches in USA were all obese/fat.

Before you all say he needs to change his hat and iron his t-shirt collar - it doesn't mean he wears those on a dating app.

He's a sub-5 somewhat soyish black-hapa, so of course. And althousigh he could PassportBro, he's got to go to the real out-of-way places where there is a new civil war every year, unlike the Domanican Republic or Brazil, which are the popular places for African-American men, and so the Tyrones crowd everyone else out. And AIUI, a lot of African (in Africa) women look down on African-American men because they are a combination of being mutts (i.e., the black analogue of the "melting pot") and having ancestors that couldn't figure out how to not be enslaved (BRUTAL!), only being interested in them because of the wealth disparity, and the fact that all those civil wars have culled the young male population.

What really galls me is the trannies that seem to be all over OLD - and while it's one thing to try to pass as a cishet, now the trannies are just coming out and saying they are trannies! :mad::mad:
 
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