"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Obesity/fat pandemic in USA has destroyed the chances of healthy weight mid men getting healthy weight mid women

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This healthy-weight Mid guy in America only got a Mid/looksmatch from a different nation - Uganda. His matches in USA were all obese/fat.

Before you all say he needs to change his hat and iron his t-shirt collar - it doesn't mean he wears those on a dating app.

 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This healthy-weight Mid guy in America only got a Mid/looksmatch from a different nation - Uganda. His matches in USA were all obese/fat.

Before you all say he needs to change his hat and iron his t-shirt collar - it doesn't mean he wears those on a dating app.

He's a sub-5 somewhat soyish black-hapa, so of course. And althousigh he could PassportBro, he's got to go to the real out-of-way places where there is a new civil war every year, unlike the Domanican Republic or Brazil, which are the popular places for African-American men, and so the Tyrones crowd everyone else out. And AIUI, a lot of African (in Africa) women look down on African-American men because they are a combination of being mutts (i.e., the black analogue of the "melting pot") and having ancestors that couldn't figure out how to not be enslaved (BRUTAL!), only being interested in them because of the wealth disparity, and the fact that all those civil wars have culled the young male population.

What really galls me is the trannies that seem to be all over OLD - and while it's one thing to try to pass as a cishet, now the trannies are just coming out and saying they are trannies! :mad::mad:
 
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