"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Oatmeal?

Monkey

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I'm trying to locate some oatmeal in the UK.

I got some from Holland & Barrett but its like a ground flour, and only says add to cereals, soups etc on the packet.

Do you guys eat this stuff on its own?

Or should I be looking for Porridge Rolled Oats/ Oat bran? (maybe the its called a different thing in the UK)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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OATMEAL: in england, used to feed horses. in ireland, used to sustain the people.

:)

get the whole rolled oats kind
 

Monkey

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Originally posted by WORKEROUTER
OATMEAL: in england, used to feed horses. in ireland, used to sustain the people.

:)

get the whole rolled oats kind
:D Is that the same as Scots Porridge Oats then?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just buy a big bag. In bulk or in the same section of the groccery store as flour
 

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These are our best years

Okay what about for those in the USA.
Whats the BEST tasting Oatmeal b/c the oatmeal i have had in the past had not tasted very good
ie. Quaker Oatmeal... ewWWWWWWWWwwwwwwwwwwwwww
 

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Quaker it some good stuff, I fill up a big bowl, sprinkle some raisins and desicated coconut in and fill with milk. Tastes great cold.
 

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Originally posted by Monkey
Quaker it some good stuff, I fill up a big bowl, sprinkle some raisins and desicated coconut in and fill with milk. Tastes great cold.
Sounds like a good recipe. I usually go with milk and some peanut butter melted into it. Tastes pretty good.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I agree, oatmeal and cornmeal are good for feeding farm animals, but after a while even animals can have a reaction to it.

fruits and vegetables are a better choice for carbs.
 
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