"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A dance where the girl asks the guy. O' Brother. I can't deal with turning down 50 girls. If you have one of these too, I feel sorry for you just as much as I feel sorry for myself. I probably should get started on the speeches "It's not you its me" or "I only date women who have good looks, I'm shallow." If you could help me with turn down lines that would seriously come in handy. Last year i sounded like a broken record I had about 5 and i told about 56 women that I was "In a relationship with a girl who lives in South Africa." I didn't care if they believed it. I just cared if they got the picture.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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First off, you need to start assuming.

If you want less girls to ask you dance, start assuming they will ask you to dance. Girls in general don't like it if people assume, and they will be less likely to ask.

Also, what do you wear? Abercrombie & Fitch? Start by worsining your appearance pimples, don't shave, shower.

Also say I promised I was going to dance with somebody else.
 
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Or if you wanted to be an azzhole...

Say you don't live up to my standards. Or you are not my type. I don't date losers like yourself.
 
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Re: Or if you wanted to be an azzhole...

Originally posted by crossboss
Say you don't live up to my standards. Or you are not my type. I don't date losers like yourself.
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lol I like both. I'm the most orignal man. I don't were ambercrombie and fitch, I don't were flip flops, I don't were shorts. I just be myself. Women eat it up.
 
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One more thing...

You may be liked by most people, but most likely not everybody. What is happening here is that girls see other girls that like you and that causes attraction. Ex: A HB 10.0 walkes by people the guys are like man...would I like to bang her...Or man she is the hottest woman around.

Instead start talking to people who don't like you. When others observe that certain people don't like you, you probably aren't well-liked.

Or talk like a nerd or say you are sick.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My favorite:

"Let's just be friends. :) . . . and I don't go to dances with friends."
 
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