"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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NYE plans

Murk

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Hey guys, hope you've all had a productive year and one of self-improvement.

I had a great couple weeks in Miami (expensive as fvck) banged a couple chicks and one stripper in Club 11 on my last day, a great trip for sure.

I have no phone, but I'm hitting a great illegal rave with my closest friends tonight to bring in the New Year and sadly back to work on Wednesday, but it was a much needed 3 weeks off.

Does anyone have any plans for tonight (or yesterday for our Australasian brethren)?

Love to you all and let's have an even better 2019, I know I will.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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In2theGame

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I'd usually be out partying but I actually don't feel like doing anything at all. Been so mentally exhausted from running business that I plan on ringing in 2019 just relaxing and "unplugging". I had a lot of sex on Friday night and Saturday afternoon, so i'm not even in the mood to fvck at the moment lol
 

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Glad you had a great time, Murk.

NYE is like Christmas for DJs, and it torments the sh*t out of me that I have to work tonight.

I'm currently talking to each of these ladies and several have already suggested at getting together for NYE. A few already started talking to me about the midnight kiss (and possibly then some ;)).

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Kills me to have to decline.

I'm probably better off, though. Plate I've been seeing for a while now would have demanded being a priority for tonight anyway, and would have made a stink about it otherwise.

At least I'll ring in the New Year making a lot of money instead of making a lot of drama. lol.
That's a good buffet you got there lol the two chicks in the middle top row with huge t!ts, I dated some like this. They must LOVE attention! These days my type has been the far left bottom row. Happy New Year dude.
 
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