"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
NYC Sperm Donor has 22 Kids
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
logicallefty
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As I read this I wondered "How does he avoid getting nailed for child support, must be a lawyer or have a good one working for him ". Then I got towards the bottom. OH OK. He HAS been nailed for child support, just not with all of the mommies (yet). Then I got to thinking "Even if he made these mommies sign an affidavit saying they would never demand child support, we know all it takes is one mommy to go to a Judge and cry and it would be torn up".
Bottom line: this guy is an idiot.
Bottom line: this guy is an idiot.
Fast track to the poor house there. If five have succesfuly sued, others will most likely follow when he gets this kind of publicity.
Only exception " might" be if the mother is in a marital relationship, but I wouldn't bet on it.…
Only exception " might" be if the mother is in a marital relationship, but I wouldn't bet on it.…
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Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Child support may not be waived by contract, as a matter of public policy. (There is a minor exception to this rule, but only if the dad volunteers to pay more than the state mandates.)
Fortunately for this guy, though, state-ordered child support will typically max out at about 50% of one's pay check. The rationale is that if they take much more than that, you won't be able to support yourself enough to keep a job. So for the most part, every baby momma after about #3 or #4 is screwed. In all likelihood, they will never see anything out of him.
Fortunately for this guy, though, state-ordered child support will typically max out at about 50% of one's pay check. The rationale is that if they take much more than that, you won't be able to support yourself enough to keep a job. So for the most part, every baby momma after about #3 or #4 is screwed. In all likelihood, they will never see anything out of him.
Well, according to the article he already has 50% of his income gone and if his future income increases, he may be liable for more $$. His kids are spread out in different states, and such CS laws per state may vary, along with different potential case judges.
Bottom line - he's way too busy screwing his own livelihood.
Bottom line - he's way too busy screwing his own livelihood.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
HoneyHitter
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I can't help feeling an urge to crush someone's skull when I read **** like this.
Stupid guy. And those women are savages for trying to ruin the donor's life after their own lifestyle choices get them in misery.
Stupid guy. And those women are savages for trying to ruin the donor's life after their own lifestyle choices get them in misery.