"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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NYC Party Saturday August 16th :D

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What's up guys? Hope you all are enjoying your respective summers. To enhance mine further, I have set up a party for Saturday August 16th at 9PM. It will be at the Remote Lounge 327 Bowery just above 2nd St. 212-228-0228. I extend this invitation to all sosuave.com members and anyone you would like to invite.

I've never been to Remote Lounge (www.remotelounge.com) but I understand it combines real life nightlife with digital/virtual interaction within the bar and at other remote lounges around the world. I set this up with a group from another online discussion forum hence I think the location is suitable.

Regardless of all that, Come out and have a blast! I'll bump this thread now and again so everyone has a chance to see it. I know I don't know any of you in the real world but fuk it, let's see what happens.

Note to Mods and admins: I am not making any money from this party, this is simply an invitation. Feel free to verify with John at the Remote Lounge at the number I listed above. Thank you for the board in general, I have learned a great deal these past few months. If any of you can make it, I'm buying shots and beers :D

I look forward to meeting whoever can make it this Saturday. Peace!

:D

Tony

P.S. Feel free to PM or post questions!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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damn, i wish i was 21 or else i would go. i doubt my fake id will get me in but if i got nothing to do, ill give it a shot!

BTW, even though its says Cuse, i go to school there. Im orginally from Brooklyn, NY.
 
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Count me in. My gf (until further notice) is coming to NY so I'll go with her.
 
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:cool: Sounds good guys. I'll post a picture of myself so you guys can see who I am as soon as my host is up again.

If you want to leave your names below or in a PM to me I'll throw you on the guest list.

Any other takers? BUMP!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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any and all DJ's in the NYC should come and hit this up. it would be really cool to meet other DJ's face to face.
 
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BUMP

Guys send me your names and I'll put you on the guest list. For now I'll put you down under your screen names. Ask for Tony's party at the door and you should get in with no cover.

Tony

I can't link any pics, if you want to send me your email, I can send you a pic oooooooohhhhhhhhhh :D
 
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