"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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NYC Party Saturday August 16th :D

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What's up guys? Hope you all are enjoying your respective summers. To enhance mine further, I have set up a party for Saturday August 16th at 9PM. It will be at the Remote Lounge 327 Bowery just above 2nd St. 212-228-0228. I extend this invitation to all sosuave.com members and anyone you would like to invite.

I've never been to Remote Lounge (www.remotelounge.com) but I understand it combines real life nightlife with digital/virtual interaction within the bar and at other remote lounges around the world. I set this up with a group from another online discussion forum hence I think the location is suitable.

Regardless of all that, Come out and have a blast! I'll bump this thread now and again so everyone has a chance to see it. I know I don't know any of you in the real world but fuk it, let's see what happens.

Note to Mods and admins: I am not making any money from this party, this is simply an invitation. Feel free to verify with John at the Remote Lounge at the number I listed above. Thank you for the board in general, I have learned a great deal these past few months. If any of you can make it, I'm buying shots and beers :D

I look forward to meeting whoever can make it this Saturday. Peace!

:D

Tony

P.S. Feel free to PM or post questions!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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damn, i wish i was 21 or else i would go. i doubt my fake id will get me in but if i got nothing to do, ill give it a shot!

BTW, even though its says Cuse, i go to school there. Im orginally from Brooklyn, NY.
 

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Count me in. My gf (until further notice) is coming to NY so I'll go with her.
 

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:cool: Sounds good guys. I'll post a picture of myself so you guys can see who I am as soon as my host is up again.

If you want to leave your names below or in a PM to me I'll throw you on the guest list.

Any other takers? BUMP!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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any and all DJ's in the NYC should come and hit this up. it would be really cool to meet other DJ's face to face.
 

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BUMP

Guys send me your names and I'll put you on the guest list. For now I'll put you down under your screen names. Ask for Tony's party at the door and you should get in with no cover.

Tony

I can't link any pics, if you want to send me your email, I can send you a pic oooooooohhhhhhhhhh :D
 
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