"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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NYC - Desert or Paradise?

Leporello

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So guys, after travel ling around the world for nearly two years I finally decided that I should return to the US and continue my education - specifically, in New York City.

Now, it's probably been discussed before, but NYC is a whole ballgame unto itself when it comes to being a DJ. Fiercer competition, a wider range of people, and endless supply of things to do and places to go...in a way, I guess it's been my dream to live there all my life.

Any DJs in New York have any specific advice? I'm a little nervous, to be honest - I'm neither a billionaire financier or a hip artist with a gallery in Soho.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I've never been to NYC, but I have lived in small towns in the middle of nowhere, and I would guess that in regard to supply of women, NYC would be paradise.
 

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Get a hat with a feather in it. And some leaopard print pants. You'll be balls deep in no time at all here.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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go to 53st and 6th ave at night after 8 pm where theres a long line with hbs and try their halal chicken lamb and rice combo best food in the world!!.
 

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Leporello said:
So guys, after travel ling around the world for nearly two years I finally decided that I should return to the US and continue my education - specifically, in New York City.

Now, it's probably been discussed before, but NYC is a whole ballgame unto itself when it comes to being a DJ. Fiercer competition, a wider range of people, and endless supply of things to do and places to go...in a way, I guess it's been my dream to live there all my life. Live there, never live wiht regrets you didnt try something like "i wish id lived there! but i wussed out"
the game may be harder in NY but you just gotta accept and rise up to it...For you will be stronger when you get to the top


Any DJs in New York have any specific advice? I'm a little nervous, to be honest - I'm neither a billionaire financier or a hip artist with a gallery in Soho.
you dont need to be rich/famous!...be urself and make your own reality come true
 

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Think about it, the New York metropolitan area is one of the most populous areas in the entire world. Yes, being the financial capital of the world, there are lots of rich people living there. But there are also millions of middle class folk and even poor people there. There are only so many Wall Street tycoons and Donald Trump types to go around. That still leaves an enormous supply of girls for the taking. What's more, there is a tremendous variety of women to choose from. You'll meet girls from all over the country and all over the world.

I've lived in a lot of different places all around the world and I've traveled to more than 30 countries. New York was hands down the best place that I've ever lived. I will be going back in the future.
 

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1337 said:
go to 53st and 6th ave at night after 8 pm where theres a long line with hbs and try their halal chicken lamb and rice combo best food in the world!!.

This one should go straight in the DJ Bible. +++
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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1337 said:
go to 53st and 6th ave at night after 8 pm where theres a long line with hbs and try their halal chicken lamb and rice combo best food in the world!!.
lol I haven't lived in nyc for years now and I know exactly what he's talking about.
 

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Well, I've just spent the last fortnight in NYC and I can pronounce it one of the best places I've ever been for women and I'm well pleased with the results - from the woman at the airport when I first arrived, who wanted to know all about my tattoos, various women in my hotel and various bars, it has been interest contact and success all along. There are plenty of ladies up for a good time - and I'm on a strict budget! :)

Just keep your wits about you and your eyes open - you will do fine.

One thing I have noticed tho - when you are with a woman, guys in NY seem to show a lot more respect than I'm used to at home. Very few will try to cut-in on you.

Coming back soon but I'm away to shower and get ready for one last night out. :D
 

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Im heading up to NYC to stay with a friend for about 5 days. I cant wait. Mainly because I havent been too far from home and NYC seems pretty awesome. My boy tells me the girls up there are ridiculous.
 

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As a born and raised New Yorker...my advice is as follows...

Be prepared for anything. Keep an open mind....

Most girls will seem pretentious and stuck-up...so if you can break that wall down without bullsh!t then your good.

SBW is spot on - us NY'ers wont cut in if your doing our thing. So we expect the same. You will learn quickly.

Have fun brother! Maybe ill head back myself.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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everywomanshero said:
It's too cold there. I would suggest you move somewhere warmer.
Perfect. I don't like hot weather anyway.
 

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There are so many beautiful women in New York City, its ridiculous. Don't have to worry about having a lot of money as long as you can afford to live here and have a little fun.

A young dude like you should be able to go out in the West Village around NYU and pick up great girls non-stop. Of course you could also go to Midtown to pick up the tourists and Jersey/L.I. skanks.
 

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I was only in NYC for 2 days in the summer months a few years ago and I knew right away this is the best town in the world. There is just so much life everywhere! Woke up in the morning to go walk around and it was already blazing with life. It's an amazing experience when you compare it to pretty much any town or city in the world.

Nothing beats NYC during the warmer months. If you get the chance to live there then by all means do it. Do consider you are probably going to be poor unless you make serious money.
 

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Since I'll be in grad school I'll be living on loans in any case - though I do hope I can work part time to make some extra money.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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