"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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NYC - Desert or Paradise?

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So guys, after travel ling around the world for nearly two years I finally decided that I should return to the US and continue my education - specifically, in New York City.

Now, it's probably been discussed before, but NYC is a whole ballgame unto itself when it comes to being a DJ. Fiercer competition, a wider range of people, and endless supply of things to do and places to go...in a way, I guess it's been my dream to live there all my life.

Any DJs in New York have any specific advice? I'm a little nervous, to be honest - I'm neither a billionaire financier or a hip artist with a gallery in Soho.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I've never been to NYC, but I have lived in small towns in the middle of nowhere, and I would guess that in regard to supply of women, NYC would be paradise.
 

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Get a hat with a feather in it. And some leaopard print pants. You'll be balls deep in no time at all here.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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go to 53st and 6th ave at night after 8 pm where theres a long line with hbs and try their halal chicken lamb and rice combo best food in the world!!.
 

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Leporello said:
So guys, after travel ling around the world for nearly two years I finally decided that I should return to the US and continue my education - specifically, in New York City.

Now, it's probably been discussed before, but NYC is a whole ballgame unto itself when it comes to being a DJ. Fiercer competition, a wider range of people, and endless supply of things to do and places to go...in a way, I guess it's been my dream to live there all my life. Live there, never live wiht regrets you didnt try something like "i wish id lived there! but i wussed out"
the game may be harder in NY but you just gotta accept and rise up to it...For you will be stronger when you get to the top


Any DJs in New York have any specific advice? I'm a little nervous, to be honest - I'm neither a billionaire financier or a hip artist with a gallery in Soho.
you dont need to be rich/famous!...be urself and make your own reality come true
 

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Think about it, the New York metropolitan area is one of the most populous areas in the entire world. Yes, being the financial capital of the world, there are lots of rich people living there. But there are also millions of middle class folk and even poor people there. There are only so many Wall Street tycoons and Donald Trump types to go around. That still leaves an enormous supply of girls for the taking. What's more, there is a tremendous variety of women to choose from. You'll meet girls from all over the country and all over the world.

I've lived in a lot of different places all around the world and I've traveled to more than 30 countries. New York was hands down the best place that I've ever lived. I will be going back in the future.
 

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1337 said:
go to 53st and 6th ave at night after 8 pm where theres a long line with hbs and try their halal chicken lamb and rice combo best food in the world!!.

This one should go straight in the DJ Bible. +++
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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1337 said:
go to 53st and 6th ave at night after 8 pm where theres a long line with hbs and try their halal chicken lamb and rice combo best food in the world!!.
lol I haven't lived in nyc for years now and I know exactly what he's talking about.
 

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Well, I've just spent the last fortnight in NYC and I can pronounce it one of the best places I've ever been for women and I'm well pleased with the results - from the woman at the airport when I first arrived, who wanted to know all about my tattoos, various women in my hotel and various bars, it has been interest contact and success all along. There are plenty of ladies up for a good time - and I'm on a strict budget! :)

Just keep your wits about you and your eyes open - you will do fine.

One thing I have noticed tho - when you are with a woman, guys in NY seem to show a lot more respect than I'm used to at home. Very few will try to cut-in on you.

Coming back soon but I'm away to shower and get ready for one last night out. :D
 

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Im heading up to NYC to stay with a friend for about 5 days. I cant wait. Mainly because I havent been too far from home and NYC seems pretty awesome. My boy tells me the girls up there are ridiculous.
 

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As a born and raised New Yorker...my advice is as follows...

Be prepared for anything. Keep an open mind....

Most girls will seem pretentious and stuck-up...so if you can break that wall down without bullsh!t then your good.

SBW is spot on - us NY'ers wont cut in if your doing our thing. So we expect the same. You will learn quickly.

Have fun brother! Maybe ill head back myself.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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everywomanshero said:
It's too cold there. I would suggest you move somewhere warmer.
Perfect. I don't like hot weather anyway.
 

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There are so many beautiful women in New York City, its ridiculous. Don't have to worry about having a lot of money as long as you can afford to live here and have a little fun.

A young dude like you should be able to go out in the West Village around NYU and pick up great girls non-stop. Of course you could also go to Midtown to pick up the tourists and Jersey/L.I. skanks.
 

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I was only in NYC for 2 days in the summer months a few years ago and I knew right away this is the best town in the world. There is just so much life everywhere! Woke up in the morning to go walk around and it was already blazing with life. It's an amazing experience when you compare it to pretty much any town or city in the world.

Nothing beats NYC during the warmer months. If you get the chance to live there then by all means do it. Do consider you are probably going to be poor unless you make serious money.
 

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Since I'll be in grad school I'll be living on loans in any case - though I do hope I can work part time to make some extra money.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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