"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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NYC Clubbing, Xmas break! Advise!

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First of all, I badly want to see Tiesto at Crobar but I am 19! Can I somehow sneak in???

I have an ID from www.myisic.com that says I am 21, but its a Student ID...will they take it???

Besides that...what are some clubs I can go to at this age or at least with that ID?

I want to have fun. I am in NYC Dec. 18 - Jan. 14.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you're not an HB9+ you have no chance with a fake non-state issued ID in this city... u'd have better luck traveling through time...

So CroBar is DEF. out and so are 90% of most clubs and 100% of all lounges...

Go to Webster Hall... its 19+ and probably the biggest club you've ever been to. It's for tourists and hot Euro girls and women from all over the world are there most nights (esp thurs), u'll have fun...


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Babnik...I would come up from the Philly area to go clubbing with you in NYC most definately
 
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Cod3r said:
If you're not an HB9+ you have no chance with a fake non-state issued ID in this city... u'd have better luck traveling through time...

So CroBar is DEF. out and so are 90% of most clubs and 100% of all lounges...

Go to Webster Hall... its 19+ and probably the biggest club you've ever been to. It's for tourists and hot Euro girls and women from all over the world are there most nights (esp thurs), u'll have fun...


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My brother in law is a detective and a cop and he knows like everyone downtown, so MAYBE he can help...

EDIT: I know a girl who works at Webster Hall.
 
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What about Exit? Is that place still around? Twilo said:
Haha Exit. It got renamed to 'Club Black' I think a while back and now Limelight is Avalon. Ahh man the memories. Good times!
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So...what the hell am I going to do? I love dance clubs and loud trance music!
 
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Avalon is terrible... seriously

Exit is still Exit... from what I remember, only been there once

Mars2112 is exotic... marquee lounge in cheslea is good too...

BED or Pink Elephant are ok as well... better know someone tho

Duvet.. ehhh



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Cod3r said:
Avalon is terrible... seriously

Exit is still Exit... from what I remember, only been there once

Mars2112 is exotic... marquee lounge in cheslea is good too...

BED or Pink Elephant are ok as well... better know someone tho

Duvet.. ehhh



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I heard of Pink Elephant too. Do you have to be 21+ strictly as well? I heard its EXPENSIVE.
 
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Ya 21+ bro...

Clubs in Chelsea are selective at the door, if you don't have a hook-up you're wasting your time and better have HB models on your arm or roll up in a benz.


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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My friends got into Pink Elephant and Cain....they said both were really grand.
I'm still wondering if MyISIC IDs are swipable...
 
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