"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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NYC Clubbing, Xmas break! Advise!

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First of all, I badly want to see Tiesto at Crobar but I am 19! Can I somehow sneak in???

I have an ID from www.myisic.com that says I am 21, but its a Student ID...will they take it???

Besides that...what are some clubs I can go to at this age or at least with that ID?

I want to have fun. I am in NYC Dec. 18 - Jan. 14.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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If you're not an HB9+ you have no chance with a fake non-state issued ID in this city... u'd have better luck traveling through time...

So CroBar is DEF. out and so are 90% of most clubs and 100% of all lounges...

Go to Webster Hall... its 19+ and probably the biggest club you've ever been to. It's for tourists and hot Euro girls and women from all over the world are there most nights (esp thurs), u'll have fun...


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Babnik...I would come up from the Philly area to go clubbing with you in NYC most definately
 

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Cod3r said:
If you're not an HB9+ you have no chance with a fake non-state issued ID in this city... u'd have better luck traveling through time...

So CroBar is DEF. out and so are 90% of most clubs and 100% of all lounges...

Go to Webster Hall... its 19+ and probably the biggest club you've ever been to. It's for tourists and hot Euro girls and women from all over the world are there most nights (esp thurs), u'll have fun...


-Cod3r

My brother in law is a detective and a cop and he knows like everyone downtown, so MAYBE he can help...

EDIT: I know a girl who works at Webster Hall.
 

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What about Exit? Is that place still around? Twilo said:
Haha Exit. It got renamed to 'Club Black' I think a while back and now Limelight is Avalon. Ahh man the memories. Good times!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So...what the hell am I going to do? I love dance clubs and loud trance music!
 

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Avalon is terrible... seriously

Exit is still Exit... from what I remember, only been there once

Mars2112 is exotic... marquee lounge in cheslea is good too...

BED or Pink Elephant are ok as well... better know someone tho

Duvet.. ehhh



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Cod3r said:
Avalon is terrible... seriously

Exit is still Exit... from what I remember, only been there once

Mars2112 is exotic... marquee lounge in cheslea is good too...

BED or Pink Elephant are ok as well... better know someone tho

Duvet.. ehhh



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I heard of Pink Elephant too. Do you have to be 21+ strictly as well? I heard its EXPENSIVE.
 

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Ya 21+ bro...

Clubs in Chelsea are selective at the door, if you don't have a hook-up you're wasting your time and better have HB models on your arm or roll up in a benz.


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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My friends got into Pink Elephant and Cain....they said both were really grand.
I'm still wondering if MyISIC IDs are swipable...
 
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