"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NY/NJ when is a good time for u?

DonRaul

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Is anyone still meeting up.

I live in Woodside Queens but frequent Lower East side and Hoboken.

I got this weekend packed but next weekend it's on.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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blackbelt2k

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dammit, u asses, we need to be serious about this, im tired of my one man missions!!!! who wants to go out sarging this friday night, 4-30-07, lets make plans..NOT HOBOKEN, but im down for newark, or nyc
 

Silver Bullet

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I'm down for this friday I'm probably going out tonight aswell if anyone is interested. I'm from S.I. so I like to stay downtown like the Bowery-meatpacking area. If anything you can call my cell at 347-405-1543
 

blackbelt2k

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Silver i have no idea where that is, but im still down.. tell me how to get there from jersey city.. or at least do i go to WTC, then take a train, or do i go to 33rd & 6th and take a metro train?
 

Silver Bullet

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Bowery is around 4th street and the Meatpacking district is around 15 street. I dont know what trains are by you I believe you can catch the 1 to 8th (for bowery) or 14th street for Meatpacking. Today is no good for me but I'm up for tomorrow (sat). How about the B bar on 4th street 40E? http://www.bbarandgrill.com/location.html My cell is 347-405-1543
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Silver Bullet

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Meatpacking district is 15 st. and the Bowery is 4th street. Friday is no longer good for me as I have to help my brother move but Saturday I'm def going to the city. How about we meet in front of the B bar 40 E. 4th Street at 9pm? BTW they got a webpage that has some directions so you can search through google if your not sure. My cell is 347-405-1543
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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hypnotic4oru

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Id be interested in meeting up .
sun and tuesday are good for me.
since I commute from nj , i d prefer to sarge for 4+ hrs.
I also have a strong day game preference

email me at: [email protected]

cheers,
Craig
 

prema

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Newark NJ Ironbound
I have two bedroom home ,will be having a room available April1st
Pm me.
 

tssme

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I'm game..central NJ here. Commute to NYC everyday..so basically what I'm saying is...anywhere in NY/NJ area I can do!
 

mr_mischief

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Hi

Same here, I live in Central NJ and can commute to NYC easily. So any evening from Thur to Sunday, I'm game. Even Saturday and Sunday daytime will work for me as well. Any body up for going out this weekend? Please pm me and we can #close each other ;)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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