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NY Mets GM | Lack of game obliterates status

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That's the problem, even though he is general manager, he has no status with that woman. That woman would prefer a player at least, or maybe a CEO, or a general manager with money and sexapil, but he had no sexapil.
I beg to differ. Being the boss of these Chad players is status to a fan. That said, it's obvious that he has to go for the more intelligent, nerdy Beckys, who can be quite sexy.
 

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Chad is for real, he lives in that top tier 20% of men that women all share. We can all be Chad to certain women, it’s just that those 20% Chad’s are Chad to the majority of women. Women indirectly tell us about Chad in their ramblings and complaints and bitchfests every day.
I agree. As for myself, being able to intellectually mog just about anyone that isn't on the Aspy spectrum, I am more attractive to women who place a high value of intelligence, which is good because I don't like stupid women (except to EscortMax or HitItAndQuitItMax). And even for the latter, I am bit gunshy, as one time I had a 1NS with a woman that I later found out was borderline developmentally disabled. :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:
 

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He is lower class male, according to the scale bellow. He has money, but does not have sexapil nor status. If he would have had sexapil at least, he'd get her, if he had all 3 she'd be messaging him the pics. That's the problem, even though he is general manager, he has no status with that woman. That woman would prefer a player at least, or maybe a CEO, or a general manager with money and sexapil, but he had no sexapil.

This YouTube author is good. I might even shift some of my YouTube watching time from IncelTubers to him.
 

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Kind of cold to publicly print the guy's letters, although I guess he has it coming.
I get the impression his message "Helllloooooo beautiful." is quoting the Joker in The Dark Knight.
I'm guessing ESPN was pissed that they lost a potentially good reporter. Of course this could be perceived as them "white knighting." But nobody forced him to send 60+ simp messages. I used to work in career development at a college, and I always told my students to be prepared for anything they write online to be on a flashing billboard someday. This guy should have introduced himself to 60 different women, in person.
 

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The Mets have fired their recently-hired GM after it became known he sent d!ck pics and more than 60 unanswered, unwanted messages - over a period of weeks - to a female ESPN reporter when he was working for the Cubs.

I'm still reading through his messages, lol. I think ESPN is taking a piss because the reporter in question got freaked out and went back to her "home country." It's pretty cringe-worthy stuff, and remember, this guy was running a major league ball club.


I guess advanced analytics still doesn't include the Book of Pook.
Part of me doesn't like that men are getting fired for actions at past employers. Yes, shiit flows downhill. The Mets are CYA'ing.

Advanced analytics guys are not always alpha males. A lot of those guys were nerdy guys and sometimes STEM majors, though a Econ major can get those jobs. Economics can be rather quantitative. These guys in general are not socially calibrated.

When a STEM major or a guy who didn't get much attention from the women in high school and college starts making big money, he believes his money entitles him to the vaginas of the most attractive women. It doesn't always work out that way and these guys are often disappointed because they devoted themselves to their studies and work to enhance their sexual market value.

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He is lower class male, according to the scale bellow. He has money, but does not have sexapil nor status. If he would have had sexapil at least, he'd get her, if he had all 3 she'd be messaging him the pics. That's the problem, even though he is general manager, he has no status with that woman. That woman would prefer a player at least, or maybe a CEO, or a general manager with money and sexapil, but he had no sexapil.

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In professional athletics, you're exactly right that women prefer the on the field athletes.

Front office staff has changed over the years. Front office personnel in all pro sports used to be more of retired players until the 1990s. In the late 1990s in baseball, one ex-player General Manager named Billy Beane changed it. Beane turned down Stanford to play pro baseball. This is a smart guy and he saw an advantage in the quantitative approach. There were quants in baseball before Beane. Beane's GM predecessor in Oakland, Sandy Alderson (now with the Mets), took steps in the quant direction. In the 1980s with the Mets, field manager Davey Johnson was also a quant. Johnson earned a mathematics while playing baseball, a nice addition to his 10+ years as a major league second baseman.

The problem with too many quants is that quants are not usually physically fit studs. Davey Johnson and Billy Beane were reasonably athletic, so they could get away with it.

That is some terrible simp game, even starting off I was not that bad.
Simp game is always unimpressive. I don't understand texting a woman 60 times without a response. I don't want to see the texts but there are few occasions where a penis pic is appropriate to send. This situation wasn't one of them.
 
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In professional athletics, you're exactly right that women prefer the on the field athletes.
I saw the recent HBO documentary on Tiger Woods, and they were talking about all these different women he was banging. The press had trotted out about 10 different mistresses he had while he was married, and a lot of these women were crying that Tiger had broken their hearts, because they had fallen for him. I kept thinking that him having all that adulation he had in the golf and sports world at the time, that's the sort of thing that is irresistible to women, because he truly was the top dog in his arena, and had worldwide fame from it. He had the kind of fame Michael Jordan or Muhammad Ali had.

There was a part where they showed him and Michael Jordan hanging out together in a club and Tiger said to him "What do i say to these women?". And Jordan said "Tell them that you're Tiger Woods". Great line. It must have been like shooting ducks in a barrel for them.
 

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I saw the recent HBO documentary on Tiger Woods, and they were talking about all these different women he was banging.
It is reported that Tiger had roughly around 120 mistresses while he was married. He was married around 6 years. That's like 20 per year but let's just round it to 24 per year. That would be 2 new ones per month. Not that much considering his fame but then again he probably had repeats with some of them so the sex frequency was probably more.
 

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It is reported that Tiger had roughly around 120 mistresses while he was married. He was married around 6 years. That's like 20 per year but let's just round it to 24 per year. That would be 2 new ones per month. Not that much considering his fame but then again he probably had repeats with some of them so the sex frequency was probably more.
Sounds like he didn't have to do any cold approaching either :rofl:
 

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Sounds like he didn't have to do any cold approaching either :rofl:
He probably did have to approach to say hello at times, but an approach is not difficult when you are famous and rich.

I would think that someone with his level of status could get some chick that is interested in sports -
The women interested in sports are more interested in the athletes and not front office personnel, especially a member of front office personnel who isn't a retired player and isn't in shape. Money helps, but not enough to overcome bad game. He probably could get a "cute" to "average" girl with his money, which he would not be able to get without money.
 

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He probably did have to approach to say hello at times, but an approach is not difficult when you are famous and rich.
Didn't sound like he had to approach much according to the documentary. His ex-wife Elin was introduced to him because she was a friend of another golfer's wife. When he would go to the clubs with Michael Jordan, the "hostess" would go around and select the prettiest girls to go sit at their table.

They did talk about one incident where he liked a waitress in a restaurant, and called to set up a meeting. But like you say, by that time his ego has to be so inflated he probably just expects the girl to cooperate.
 

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To what extent are you going to let that bother you or get in your way? What can you do about it?
I’m not using at as an excuse. I want to BE that guy. Granted I can’t be tall (I’m 5’10) but I can be richer funnier and fitter
 

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But why didnt she just block the man's texts?
I wondered that too. That seems like the easiest solution.

The guy had bad game. I looked at his Wiki bio. Apparently, he was a college athlete in both baseball and hockey at Bowdoin College, which is a small Division III school. Division III schools do not do athletic scholarships, but in that small environment, that's potential alpha status. He was also a History major and not a STEM nerd by educational training. He might not have had solid game even as a possible Big Man on Campus (BMOC) as a college athlete.

In general, a Econ or STEM major quant working for a pro sports team is no different on SMV than a Wall Street or tech guy. Some Wall St guys do well with poontang, often toil away in obsecurity. A lot of the big money tech guys barely get laid.

Outside of being a General Manger/Team President/Part Owner, there's not an SMV status bump based on being in an off the field/court role for a pro sports team.
 

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Outside of being a General Manger/Team President/Part Owner, there's not an SMV status bump based on being in an off the field/court role for a pro sports team.
True. You'd have to be overly handsome or young/charismatic (in front of the media a lot and charming). Teams are hiring young GMs these days, but the job sounds like a real grind. Obviously being top man in any organization is something, but a man still has to take advantage of it (and not the way this guy did, lol). Best way would be 1) build a winner and 2) turn yourself into Prince of the City.
 

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What a loser. He should have targeted easy gold diggers. ***** is *****.
 
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