Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
:cheer: Oh yeah, that's right, I knew it:cheer:madgame said:The bottom line is a plate of spaghetti has less calories than a cup of peanuts and WAY less fat.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
So you're saying that eating fats is better than eating vegitables, pastas, legumes and fruits... Yeahhhhh.... Riiiggghhhttt....simon said:40-65% carbs is necessary?
What is all this anti-fat rubbish? You can't think of a reason to increase fat intake? I'd suggest you do some reading of cholesterol studies, saturated fat studies, high carbs vs. low carb studies, and realise what a load of bull**** the low-fat, high-carb diet really is. Or alternatively just read the works of Anthony Colpo.
you're lumping together all sorts of foods that have very different nutritional profiles. for a guy trying to lose weight (bodyfat!) vegetables and legumes have almost uniformly excellent nutritional profiles, while most pastas (whole wheat to a lesser extent) and fruits (especially juices) are heavy in the sort of carbs that produce an insulin response that packs on the bodyfat.Francisco d'Anconia said:So you're saying that eating fats is better than eating vegitables, pastas, legumes and fruits...
That only happens if you live a sedimentary life. Those are the people who are desperate to cut out carbs from their lives. Anyone who is active eats complex carbohydrates for energy, not fat. When exercising carbs will be used sooner than any fat that you take in. Actually fats will inhibit the body's ability to burn carbs, that is how its converted to fat and stored.Throttle said:you're lumping together all sorts of foods that have very different nutritional profiles. for a guy trying to lose weight (bodyfat!) vegetables and legumes have almost uniformly excellent nutritional profiles, while most pastas (whole wheat to a lesser extent) and fruits (especially juices) are heavy in the sort of carbs that produce an insulin response that packs on the bodyfat.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Bull****. There are plenty of people who are very active on a low-carb diet. Sure, low-carbing may not be the way to go if you do long distance running or any other endurance sport, but you certainly do not need carbohydrates for energy if you keep your activity within normal bounds.Francisco d'Anconia said:Anyone who is active eats complex carbohydrates for energy, not fat.
Because eating like that is so many times better than how most of the world's population eat. Doctors should much rather have you eat more vegetables and less fruit.If fruits were so bad why do the majority of doctors agree that people should eat several servings of fruits and vegetables per day?
Why should they tell you that? Most doctors don't have the time to research for themselves. With their hectic lifestyles, it is much easier to just assimilate the information provided to you in summary form by the government. However, if you read the studies which label saturated fat 'bad fat', then you'd know that what the information that doctors are reading is wrong.How many doctors tell you that you should have several servings of something that is primarily fat? Even the good monounsaturated fats are to be eaten in moderation.
Yes. But you have to define 'vegetarian lifestyle'. This person eats a ****load of calorie dense foods, simple carbs, mixing carbs and fats, without doing any exercise, and hence is fat.Have you ever seen a overweight person who had been using a vegetarian lifestyle?
you're still awake?Skilla_Staz said:You got served...
news flash: most people in the world today are moving towards a very sedentary lifestyle (I like the 'sedimentary' freudian slip, that's good stuff). almost all people overestimate the amount of activity in their lives, particularly those of us 'lucky' enough to have desk jobs, even as they underestimate the amount of food on their plates at each & every meal. before we can gauge the amount of carbs necessary to give us energy through the day, we need to unhook ourselves from the high fructose corn syrup and refined wheat flour machines.Francisco d'Anconia said:That only happens if you live a sedimentary life. Those are the people who are desperate to cut out carbs from their lives. Anyone who is active eats complex carbohydrates for energy, not fat. When exercising carbs will be used sooner than any fat that you take in. Actually fats will inhibit the body's ability to burn carbs, that is how its converted to fat and stored.
because most doctors buy the USDA bull driven by American agricultural interests, which treats radically different foods as "groups". IF you mean whole fruits, then there are better and worse options for fruits (the more fiber the better), but most people see this as a license to guzzle o.j. & other forms of sugar water. You're still mixing together fruits and vegetables. People hear "fruits and vegetables" while thinking "i hate all greens & vegetables" and reach immediately for the sweetest options, not the healthiest options. an apple a day? sure! but a whole one, skin and all.If fruits were so bad why do the majority of doctors agree that people should eat several servings of fruits and vegetables per day? How many doctors tell you that you should have several servings of something that is primarily fat? Even the good monounsaturated fats are to be eaten in moderation.
yes. next topic.Have you ever seen a overweight person who had been using a vegetarian lifestyle?
Throttle said:you're still awake?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.