Nutjob ex blocked now her mom contacting? Wtf

[MountainSlide]

I dated a girl diagnosed with BPD. She told me about it when we first started dating but I had no idea what it was. Turned into the most psychotic relationship I’ve ever been in everything from her grabbing knives and starting to cut herself to her being arrested by the police. Anyway. I suspected her of cheating and found messages on her phone that had confirmed this. So I dumped her a$$. We had a weird post breakup thing that went on and I never had a breakup before where I felt mentally unstable until this one. I legit was having panic attacks afterwards and felt like I was suffering from a soul crushing oneitus. Anyway fast forward several months. I had tapered off of talking to her, she was in a relationship with someone else. And I decided it was a good idea to have her over. I banged her. More proof that she’s a cheating *****. A week later it was her birthday and I didn’t message her and she messaged me a couple days later saying how disappointing it is that I didn’t wish her a happy birthday. She had legit invited me to her birthday party where her boyfriend was going even though she’d had sex with me a week before. I responded and asked her if she wanted to come over and hookup lol. Said nothing else. She responded and said ‘how about I block you’. I responded with ‘okay, let me know if you change your mind’. Then I was sitting there and decided I didn’t want such a disfunctional person in my life. So I made a full block on her. Friday night, her mom starts blowing my phone up with texts messages asking if I was ignoring her. So after I was done having dinner with new girl and on my way home, I called the mom back. She asked if I still had a table the ex had left at my house (I had offered it back to them several months ago and they said that they didn’t want it). I told her that I was using it now and got off the phone with her.

Why the f*ck is the mom trying to get in touch with me on a Friday night over a stupid freicking table that they said they didn’t want!? I should block her too right?

 

[marmel75]

She might be BPD also? Where do you think the daughter got it from?

 

[MountainSlide]

She might be BPD also? Where do you think the daughter got it from?

That would make sense. Delete and blocked

 

[Skyline]

Put that table outside with a note saying she can have it. Or just drop it off at her place with a video of you doing so.

She will come for it and threaten with the police.

That table is just an excuse to try and get back into your life. Don't let her use it...

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

If you know she’s dysfunctional and being around her literally gave you panic attacks why on Earth did you decide to hook up with her after breaking up?

You didn’t “have one over” on her, you retreated from a hornet’s nest only to walk back over and stick your d*ck in it.

She’s nuts, leave her the hell alone. Who cares if her mum is calling you? Tell the mum you’re not together, block that number too if need be and move on with your life asap.

 

[Billtx49]

I dated a girl diagnosed with BPD.

Why the f*ck is the mom trying to get in touch with me on a Friday night over a stupid freicking table that they said they didn’t want!?

I should block her too right?

It’s a symtom of that disorder, they will use their own and possibly your family members to try to get to you when they think you are drifting too far away.
They wll make sure you see things like couples pics or web links from your past also. They cannot follow through on what they do, possibly pull a reverse move, or be direct because there are no real emotions below their surface…
Visibly move in one direction, but no follow through of a reverse afterwards, it’s what mindfvcks most guys that interact with these headcases…
Yes, a total block of her and her family is called for to save your own sanity as she will continue to mindfvck you even after a dump…

 

[MountainSlide]

you retreated from a hornet’s nest only to walk back over and stick your d*ck in it.

Is that what all these red bumps are from!? Just kidding

 

[Spaz]

Is that what all these red bumps are from!? Just kidding

....

 

[JohnChops]

Put that table outside with a note saying she can have it. Or just drop it off at her place with a video of you doing so.

She will come for it and threaten with the police.

That table is just an excuse to try and get back into your life. Don't let her use it...

This is textbook for them. First it’s the table, then before you know it you’re back inside then and then oops now you have a kid.

Never talk to this girl or her mom ever again

 

[MountainSlide]

Yeah just noticed her mom is trying to add me on Snapchat. What fricking weirdos. I blocked you for a reason b*tches

 

[MountainSlide]

This is textbook for them. First it’s the table, then before you know it you’re back inside then and then oops now you have a kid.

Never talk to this girl or her mom ever again

True. She was always trying to get me to *** inside her but my gut always told me not to.

 

[old_skoolr]

Bang her mum!!!!

 

[Spaz]

Bang her mum!!!!

 

[sosousage]

i wonder where people meet all these BPDS ive never met one but read about them alltime

 

[Spaz]

i wonder where people meet all these BPDS ive never met one but read about them alltime

I've never met 1 too but maybe we automatically dismiss those women to even date them, so that's a possibility.