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Number **** test

mutambo

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I got into this situation and I am wondering what you guys around here would think.
So I was out on in the city this week, to a bar/club, where I noticed a very nice petite lady. I walked over introduced myself and did the typical small talk, she seemed to be enjoying it.. Because I just got into the place I excused myself and went back to my friends, as I knew I would bump into her later. Also I was a bit intoxicated.
So an hour or so later I see her at the bar with friends and I go over and start chatting, same drill make her laugh touch and so on. Now I go in for the number, saying she should give it to me so we could have a drink sometime soon. To which she initially refuses saying "she does not give out her number". In my head I'm like fine and not really giving too much ****; so I respond with a "are you sure?". She looks me up and down, and says okay. So I give her my phone she enters the digits, and we pretty much part our ways.
I know the # is real; I send her a text msg this week and nothing.. (Will try once more later, after that I am done) I'm just curious why give out your number and not reply then. Any thoughts?
 

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The Duke

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mutambo said:
I'm just curious why give out your number and not reply then. Any thoughts?
She didn't want to give her to number to you in the first place because she wasn't interested. She's not replying because she's not interested.

The only reason you got it was to make you go away. Its how women handle most things in life. She didn't want to tell you no for fear of upsetting you and
causing an uncomfortable situation.

Get used to it!
 

Harry Wilmington

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Howiestern said:
She didn't want to give her to number to you in the first place because she wasn't interested. She's not replying because she's not interested.

The only reason you got it was to make you go away. Its how women handle most things in life. She didn't want to tell you no for fear of upsetting you and
causing an uncomfortable situation.

Get used to it!
This, all damn day. Just 'cause she give you a number doesn't mean she's interested. You only really know she's interested when you contact her and she responds to it; then, you know when you ask her out and she either says "yes" or gives you some passive response about not being able to meet up for x-reason (i.e. "no"). Until she picks up the phone or goes on a date with you, don't assume she's interested.
 
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