"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Number **** test

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mutambo

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I got into this situation and I am wondering what you guys around here would think.
So I was out on in the city this week, to a bar/club, where I noticed a very nice petite lady. I walked over introduced myself and did the typical small talk, she seemed to be enjoying it.. Because I just got into the place I excused myself and went back to my friends, as I knew I would bump into her later. Also I was a bit intoxicated.
So an hour or so later I see her at the bar with friends and I go over and start chatting, same drill make her laugh touch and so on. Now I go in for the number, saying she should give it to me so we could have a drink sometime soon. To which she initially refuses saying "she does not give out her number". In my head I'm like fine and not really giving too much ****; so I respond with a "are you sure?". She looks me up and down, and says okay. So I give her my phone she enters the digits, and we pretty much part our ways.
I know the # is real; I send her a text msg this week and nothing.. (Will try once more later, after that I am done) I'm just curious why give out your number and not reply then. Any thoughts?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mutambo said:
I'm just curious why give out your number and not reply then. Any thoughts?
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She didn't want to give her to number to you in the first place because she wasn't interested. She's not replying because she's not interested.

The only reason you got it was to make you go away. Its how women handle most things in life. She didn't want to tell you no for fear of upsetting you and
causing an uncomfortable situation.

Get used to it!
 
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Howiestern said:
She didn't want to give her to number to you in the first place because she wasn't interested. She's not replying because she's not interested.

The only reason you got it was to make you go away. Its how women handle most things in life. She didn't want to tell you no for fear of upsetting you and
causing an uncomfortable situation.

Get used to it!
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This, all damn day. Just 'cause she give you a number doesn't mean she's interested. You only really know she's interested when you contact her and she responds to it; then, you know when you ask her out and she either says "yes" or gives you some passive response about not being able to meet up for x-reason (i.e. "no"). Until she picks up the phone or goes on a date with you, don't assume she's interested.
 
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