"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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It wouldn't be an issue if it's never brought up.
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
It wouldn't be an issue if it's never brought up.
So your policy is "Don't ask, don't tell"?

What if the person you're interested in have 15 partners?
 

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I don't keep up with how many partners I'VE been with. What actual purpose does keeping track give you? It just show's your insecurity, where's the benefit in that?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
I don't keep up with how many partners I'VE been with. What actual purpose does keeping track give you? It just show's your insecurity, where's the benefit in that?
So you mean if a girl had been with 100 guys you can accpet her?
Me I can't. It has absolutely nothing to do with insecurity, all about STANDARDS dude.
 

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Originally posted by friendlydays
So you mean if a girl had been with 100 guys you can accpet her?
Me I can't. It has absolutely nothing to do with insecurity, all about STANDARDS dude.
Personally, I'm not insecure enough to care so I would never ask.

So, if by some strange quirk of fate let's say that you somehow are able to bed 100 women. Would you take yourself off the market because you would be considered "used goods?"
 
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