"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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It wouldn't be an issue if it's never brought up.
 
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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
It wouldn't be an issue if it's never brought up.
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So your policy is "Don't ask, don't tell"?

What if the person you're interested in have 15 partners?
 
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I don't keep up with how many partners I'VE been with. What actual purpose does keeping track give you? It just show's your insecurity, where's the benefit in that?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
I don't keep up with how many partners I'VE been with. What actual purpose does keeping track give you? It just show's your insecurity, where's the benefit in that?
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So you mean if a girl had been with 100 guys you can accpet her?
Me I can't. It has absolutely nothing to do with insecurity, all about STANDARDS dude.
 
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Originally posted by friendlydays
So you mean if a girl had been with 100 guys you can accpet her?
Me I can't. It has absolutely nothing to do with insecurity, all about STANDARDS dude.
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Personally, I'm not insecure enough to care so I would never ask.

So, if by some strange quirk of fate let's say that you somehow are able to bed 100 women. Would you take yourself off the market because you would be considered "used goods?"
 
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