Number Closing

[Desirable]

I'm good at getting to this part and I know that it's not a numbers game, but when I call I always have to explain myself and sometimes the girl doesn't remember me.

I'm just wondering if there's a more interesting way to make her remember you rather than saying "I'm that dude from that place last week".

 

[mustfirstregister]

more rapport.

 

[Desirable]

Thanks man, I figured that was the case, but does this mean that speed pickups don't work? I mean If you're in a club which was the case, a 3 minute conversation is the usual followed by a close. How do you go about calling 3-7 days later when all the factors such as her giving out numbers to 10 guys, got drunk or under lots of stress can make her forget.

 

[Exhumed]

Don't wait three to seven days?

 

[Scars]

When you meet her make sure to slip in an inside joke you can both remember later. Or even better, give her a nickname.

 

[HeyPachuco!]

Thanks man, I figured that was the case, but does this mean that speed pickups don't work? I mean If you're in a club which was the case, a 3 minute conversation is the usual followed by a close. How do you go about calling 3-7 days later when all the factors such as her giving out numbers to 10 guys, got drunk or under lots of stress can make her forget.

Apparently "Bouncing" with you're target around the club or to another venue helps building (rapport/ comfort) for a Day 2, because in her "mind" the time you spent seems longer than it was. Bouncing will be hard if the girl is with less than a 2 -set. You shouldn't be number closing under atleast 20-25 minutes with you're target. That doesn't mean stand there and talk her down for a solid 20-25, go about, talk to other girls, or bounce her around, seclude her or any potential external ****blocks (friend/s) or/and then come back and close her.

 

[Snow Plowman]

I'm not a fan of calling as I usually tend to give chicks my # for the sake of giving them the opportunity to come along into my life. She always remembers me because she'll remember the opportunity she was just given.

All I ever do is just text chicks to come along in whatever I'm doing. If it's not that then there is no real contact unless she contacts me and I always consider that as an invitation for sex.

If were not face to face there is no need for communication. No chick has ever forgotten me since haha and I tend to bump into women that I don't even REMEMBER.

On a more relevant note...Bringing up inside jokes you guys had when you first met and screening them hard, if she feels like she had to actually invest to win you over she won't forget.