"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Number closed a 10 ! need to date this one omg

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I was at the gym working out and was pretty lucky :). She walked in the gym 1 hour before closing time. Every guy in the gym turn their heads and she does her thing. One even approaches, talks for a bit and trains a bit with her. I know the guy so I winked him like good job bro.

Anyway he comes to me for a small talk and she follows to my corner where I was working out. I was lucky the dude left the gym and she stays around in the corner. Damn you wont believe it bro a 8 in the face and a amazing body just sick. Those legs and ass though, and regular size round titties standing forward just how I like them :yes:

I teased her like you can't squat more and she replies laughing like I bet you can't even do this weight. I small talk for a bit. Im busy with my business plan for a healthy food bar and she tells me she wants to do that too. So I created a perfect chance to number close and did it. I texted her on whatsapp imediatley so she has my number.

After some rapport (she talks about instagram and more bullsht I was replieying with yee, uhu yeee uhu the whole time and looking at that body flowing true the gym wow, and some more stuff shes a dancer at a club - red flag ) she leaves earlier then me like 10minutes and asks me if I went downstairs also. I told her no go ahead im not done yet. Anyway I went down after 10 mins and shes still around talking to a girl, I change and leave the gym and she follows me (interest sign). She asks me some questions and when we left the doors I immediatley told her I have to run Ill call you and she says okay.

She didnt replie on my text (texted: hey *Thegambino here) yet but damn I number closed a model face with a amazing body perfect for some good nights in my bedroom. :up:

I hope that she replies tommorow, if not Ill give her a call sunday to arrange a date! ill keep you guys updated
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A future one itis thread has just been born. :whistle:
 

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Where's Vice??? Got a field report bro!!

I teased her like you can't squat more and she replies laughing like I bet you can't even do this weight.
Nice.

So I created a perfect chance to number close and did it
Awesome.

she talks about instagram and more bullsht I was replieying with yee, uhu yeee uhu the whole time
Yeah, fvck that noise.

she leaves earlier then me like 10minutes and asks me if I went downstairs also. I told her no go ahead im not done yet.
Favorite part. Nice work. :up: :up: IMO, doing that right there is harder said than done.


But yeah, don't set yourself up for failure. It does sound like you're pedestalizing her already....too much. But either way, nicely played. Keep playing....
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Oooh **** forgot to say: She said I dance. I told her can you belly dance? She says yesss. I tell her show me, she says nooo I approached her lifted her shirt up a bit and she does her little thing for me haha, just do it, action pays bros
 

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I texted her she replied with hey whatsup, I asked how her weekend was she ignored my text.

I got 2 options

I give her a call in a couple of days to set up a date or I wait until I run in2 her in the gym.

Im going for the second option and check out how she reacts when she sees me since she ignored my last text.

In the gym she only gave me positive IOI's so im taking one last shot
 

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^ would go with option 2 as well. good luck!
 

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In my opinion...those super hb don't need u to text them really.
they have friends and pursuers texting all the time. Plus they are always busy either looking in the mirror or taking beauty naps.

I say you ignore her at the gym. Give her a taste of her own medicine.

last two event promoter model chicks gave me numbers and nothing happened until I decided they weren't worth it...thats when they come back acting extra sweet. Fvck!... I miss 10s...lately I'm not getting anything but 4s lol
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Ye I just forget about her since she ignord my text f*ck that behavior. If she talks to me in the gym its aight ill go from there if not bye being a 10 doesnt mean sh1t, i would love to f8ck her but I won't show neediness at all cost
 

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Espi said:
^^^You got the right mindset there Gambino. Just leave her be. I would give it 2 weeks and then out of the blue I would text her for a drinkdate. No texting back and forth at all about the weather, etc. etc. Just, "Would you like to meet me for a drink?" But again--wait a few weeks.

In the meantime, if you see her in the gym, I agree with Sideways: ignore her. Act like you don't even see her, like she doesn't exist. More than anything, exceptionally hot chicks HATE being ignored, just as much as they love ignoring the men who chase them.
Agreed.

One more note, you need to make the texts more interesting than "how was your weekend" for these uppity good looking brauds. That's the sh*t every other guy is texting or messaging her on facebook. You stood out because you had the audacity to tease and neg her. Let the texts follow the same suit.
 

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Good work.

I would say tho. Fvck text. You've already chatted on good terms. Texting is open to way too much head fvck and flake.

It takes more baws to call but it'll be worth it. Good luck.
 

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sorry but...reality check:

she did not reply to your text...what could that mean...? I wonder... LMAO.

You say she's a 10, yeah sure, she's a super model from Victoria's Secret...I hope you're a 9 or you have a lot of money.
 

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Yeah, why would you text her again after she ignored his text?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I texted her 30mins ago again even tho she ignored my *howwasyourweekendtext last week

me: Hey Kay, Im almost done with my preperations for Moti (my healty food business plan, read the post)!
her: Heyy, coool! any news?
me: Well got a lots of stuff to think about, lets go for a drink this week have some fun and I want your opinion on some stuff too
her: Okay, you want me to work for you or what?
me: Yes, if you pass the application, haha
me: When are you free this week?

waiting for response know,, I want to lay her and this girl is a straight 10, shes fun, a model and a dancer so ye I want to involve her in my business idea also!
 

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TheGambino said:
I texted her 30mins ago again even tho she ignored my *howwasyourweekendtext last week

me: Hey Kay, Im almost done with my preperations for Moti (my healty food business plan, read the post)!
her: Heyy, coool! any news?
me: Well got a lots of stuff to think about, lets go for a drink this week have some fun and I want your opinion on some stuff too
her: Okay, you want me to work for you or what?
me: Yes, if you pass the application, haha
me: When are you free this week?

waiting for response know,, I want to lay her and this girl is a straight 10, shes fun, a model and a dancer so ye I want to involve her in my business idea also!

Did you read what is in bold above?
She is NOT INTO you. She may want a job if you offer her one, but she is not interested in anything else.

1 she ignored your previous text, but you are so damn stubborn and blind, that you did not want to see what that meant, ie, not interested.

2 you're so damn stubborn and blind again, that you texted her AGAIN, wtf?

3 she wont probably reply to your last text.

It is not that difficult to see when a woman is not into you, dont you think?
 

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You could be right bro, so what? if she goes out with me, ill do my thing, ill take her out at night, have drinks, have fun talk about everything but my business plan. Ill kino and escalate, if shes not up for it bye next ill end the date right there or use her for social circle to meet new girls... so what do I have to lose?

its possible that she will ignore my last text like you said indeed, ill ripp her number then.
 

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Yup Pyros you are right, she answers: 'Can't this week and i'm going to Ibiza next week'

I will not answer , ripped her number
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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