Leah
Don Juan
Saw this guy in class, waited for him after and offered him a ride home whoch he accepted. Had chit chat, asked myself out with him and he said it'd be awkward as there's a girl there he's kind-of seeing. NEXT!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Number Close, now what?
- Thread starter Leah
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
catch
Senior Don Juan
hey, your doing everything right, youve already got his interest, thats evident!
anyhow, if your going to next him because hes seeing someone else then you've lost before youve even started...
its ten times easier to take a man than it is to keep a man.
now if you want to game this guy, you still can... he sounds pretty open to you, which means he will be pretty easy to bag if you play the cards right!:woo:
anyhow, if your going to next him because hes seeing someone else then you've lost before youve even started...
its ten times easier to take a man than it is to keep a man.
now if you want to game this guy, you still can... he sounds pretty open to you, which means he will be pretty easy to bag if you play the cards right!:woo:
Leah
Don Juan
Elaborate....
catch
Senior Don Juan
he's told you that he's kind of seeing someone, iv'e always thought if your just "seeing " someone then your options remain, open!
hes playing hard to get, which guys do "do", and he's trying to send you mixed signals! maybe hes not the afc, some thought he was, therefore, you are the one being seduced! hes causing you to"wonder" about him!
007 is a secret agent, his main skill was seducing his enemy!
a classical military tactic "infiltration", he would slip through the defenses of his enemy, like a trojan horse!
if you, abide by his rules, follow his lead in the game, become what he wants you to become, chase him...for now... and slip through his defenses where, then, you strike...!
once you gained his interest, once he thinks he has you under his control, then it is your turn, it will be your chance to make HIM "wonder" about you!
play his game for now, when the opportunity arrises, then TURN THE TABLES!
hes playing hard to get, which guys do "do", and he's trying to send you mixed signals! maybe hes not the afc, some thought he was, therefore, you are the one being seduced! hes causing you to"wonder" about him!
007 is a secret agent, his main skill was seducing his enemy!
a classical military tactic "infiltration", he would slip through the defenses of his enemy, like a trojan horse!
if you, abide by his rules, follow his lead in the game, become what he wants you to become, chase him...for now... and slip through his defenses where, then, you strike...!
once you gained his interest, once he thinks he has you under his control, then it is your turn, it will be your chance to make HIM "wonder" about you!
play his game for now, when the opportunity arrises, then TURN THE TABLES!
Iamnotacrook
Senior Don Juan
This is hilarious. A chick using the DJ terms. :crackup:Originally posted by Leah
I'll try my luck tomorrow casually, and hope he doesn't LJBF me!
This site... is not actually for women... you do know that, right? Neg hitting a quiet guy doesn't help JACK!! lol
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
TxCowboy
Senior Don Juan
Yeah these chicks have caught on to all that BS ....Originally posted by The_Shezzler
Personally i think the whole philosophy around when to call/ when not to call as gone to a level of complete nonsense.
My field tested methods (that work - because the initial meeting built rapport and made a connection) are to call the girl WHENEVER YOU feel like it.
Is she/he really gonna lose sleep about whether or not you call her/him?:
1. The day after you met?
2. 2-3 days later?
3. 1 week later?
No way, if you build the connection when you first meet her/him, that initial approach will justify calling her/him anytime you wish (within reason) thus eliminating the so called 'Phone Rules' from seduction history.
I asked a random chick the other day at a party I was at on campus and she was telling me about girls knowing about that 3 day waiting period and what cr@p it is. Most can tell that your just playin' em if you do that and they'll just blow u off
Leah
Don Juan
Found a new toy now anyway. Ha! Thank you all for your help xxx