Leah
Don Juan
Saw this guy in class, waited for him after and offered him a ride home whoch he accepted. Had chit chat, asked myself out with him and he said it'd be awkward as there's a girl there he's kind-of seeing. NEXT!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Number Close, now what?
- Thread starter Leah
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
catch
Senior Don Juan
hey, your doing everything right, youve already got his interest, thats evident!
anyhow, if your going to next him because hes seeing someone else then you've lost before youve even started...
its ten times easier to take a man than it is to keep a man.
now if you want to game this guy, you still can... he sounds pretty open to you, which means he will be pretty easy to bag if you play the cards right!:woo:
anyhow, if your going to next him because hes seeing someone else then you've lost before youve even started...
its ten times easier to take a man than it is to keep a man.
now if you want to game this guy, you still can... he sounds pretty open to you, which means he will be pretty easy to bag if you play the cards right!:woo:
Leah
Don Juan
Elaborate....
catch
Senior Don Juan
he's told you that he's kind of seeing someone, iv'e always thought if your just "seeing " someone then your options remain, open!
hes playing hard to get, which guys do "do", and he's trying to send you mixed signals! maybe hes not the afc, some thought he was, therefore, you are the one being seduced! hes causing you to"wonder" about him!
007 is a secret agent, his main skill was seducing his enemy!
a classical military tactic "infiltration", he would slip through the defenses of his enemy, like a trojan horse!
if you, abide by his rules, follow his lead in the game, become what he wants you to become, chase him...for now... and slip through his defenses where, then, you strike...!
once you gained his interest, once he thinks he has you under his control, then it is your turn, it will be your chance to make HIM "wonder" about you!
play his game for now, when the opportunity arrises, then TURN THE TABLES!
hes playing hard to get, which guys do "do", and he's trying to send you mixed signals! maybe hes not the afc, some thought he was, therefore, you are the one being seduced! hes causing you to"wonder" about him!
007 is a secret agent, his main skill was seducing his enemy!
a classical military tactic "infiltration", he would slip through the defenses of his enemy, like a trojan horse!
if you, abide by his rules, follow his lead in the game, become what he wants you to become, chase him...for now... and slip through his defenses where, then, you strike...!
once you gained his interest, once he thinks he has you under his control, then it is your turn, it will be your chance to make HIM "wonder" about you!
play his game for now, when the opportunity arrises, then TURN THE TABLES!
Iamnotacrook
Senior Don Juan
This is hilarious. A chick using the DJ terms. :crackup:Originally posted by Leah
I'll try my luck tomorrow casually, and hope he doesn't LJBF me!
This site... is not actually for women... you do know that, right? Neg hitting a quiet guy doesn't help JACK!! lol
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
TxCowboy
Senior Don Juan
Yeah these chicks have caught on to all that BS ....Originally posted by The_Shezzler
Personally i think the whole philosophy around when to call/ when not to call as gone to a level of complete nonsense.
My field tested methods (that work - because the initial meeting built rapport and made a connection) are to call the girl WHENEVER YOU feel like it.
Is she/he really gonna lose sleep about whether or not you call her/him?:
1. The day after you met?
2. 2-3 days later?
3. 1 week later?
No way, if you build the connection when you first meet her/him, that initial approach will justify calling her/him anytime you wish (within reason) thus eliminating the so called 'Phone Rules' from seduction history.
I asked a random chick the other day at a party I was at on campus and she was telling me about girls knowing about that 3 day waiting period and what cr@p it is. Most can tell that your just playin' em if you do that and they'll just blow u off
Leah
Don Juan
Found a new toy now anyway. Ha! Thank you all for your help xxx