“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Today I tried to get this girl's number, she's like "sorry, I have a boyfriend." So I'm like "OK" and walked off. In the future, should I just walk off in this kind of situation?
I am thinking about maybe I could say "OK! Take my number and text me if you change your mind." What do you guys think?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Never give your number as a trophy to girls. Instead push once more for theirs and leave.
 
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"O I got a boyfriend too... it's kool, so what's your number 07...?" (If I have a wing, I'll usually just point to him at the bar or where ever he is and he will wave or something haha)

"Kool i'll take him out too! so what's your number 07...?"

They usually work for me most of the time, but if all looks lost and she looks like she needs that extra push, I bring out the big guns.

It's the one Vince Vaughn used on Jennifer Aniston in the "Break-up".

"O are you going to marry him?"

Hb: Umm I don't know

DJ: I see so you are unsure, that is understandable, you are looking for that one right, but how would you ever know who it is unless you see what else is out there. Because otherwise you will always be unsure.

HB: I guess that makes sense

DJ: ok then so what is your number...? (This is worked on a semantic level, rather than an implicit level like the joke and laugh than the last one, so in my opinion no need to cue with the area code. She will know if she wants to give you that number by the end of it)

I only pull that one out for the special occasions (Super HBs), as it can tend to be longer than what I described there and I get a lot deeper into it, by the end she is saying "you are completely right!". Worked 3/3 times for me.

The first two I have probably used about 50 times and have usually worked for me 2/3 times, with the first one being better.

It's more about the attitude and confidence though and if this is dominant enough she will submit into taking your perception of the world rather than her current one.
 
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LeonSK said:
Today I tried to get this girl's number, she's like "sorry, I have a boyfriend." So I'm like "OK" and walked off. In the future, should I just walk off in this kind of situation?
I am thinking about maybe I could say "OK! Take my number and text me if you change your mind." What do you guys think?
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That is about as lame as it gets dude...

Give her a devilish smile and say "It's cool...I'm not the jealous type..." and then just be like 740...or whatever area code you are in to get her started with the number, and then just shut up and let her finish it...sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't, but its a hell of a lot better than giving her your number which she will throw out as soon as you turn around....
 
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LeonSK said:
Today I tried to get this girl's number, she's like "sorry, I have a boyfriend." So I'm like "OK" and walked off. In the future, should I just walk off in this kind of situation?
I am thinking about maybe I could say "OK! Take my number and text me if you change your mind." What do you guys think?
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Two reasons for chicks throwing out the BF line.

They just aren't interested in you even if they might be disloyal to their boyfriend.

They are actually loyal to their boyfriend. (Believe it or not.)

You can say: So what? I have a girlfriend. What's your number? While holding out your phone.

Most times the above line won't work as she wasn't interested in you to begin with and that line will give her an excuse/justification for "why she knew she 'really' didn't like you in the first place throwing the blame on YOU in her mind."...even though she really simply wasn't interested.

The only thing I'd say since it's an obvious either way they aren't interested in you is: Does your boyfriend tell chicks he has a girlfriend?

And walk away. Either she decides to call you back over to give you her number or you make her wonder about her own relationship and a missed opportunity while you move on to another chick.
 
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I think there's no clearer sign if disinterest. Just say "ok, see you" and save yourself some dignity and leave. At least you tried.
 
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