Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Bingo-Player

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I've recently developed a taste for getting nudes off chicks

don't know why but there's something about making a chick strip for me on camera that gets me going its different to porn because I actually know the girls personally

just wondering if anyone else has a similar interest and if so what methods you use to get your nudes

I train hard in the gym & have a good body so I usually start with a few topless selfies and then build from there which usually works but chicks can sometimes be hard work or stubborn so just wondering if anyone's got any other methods they would like to share
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheMonkeyKing

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Really depends on the girl. Can usually get pics out of GFs. Even just take my own sometimes during the sex.

With others, it does seem easiest to send something tame first to warm them up. Though some just send them completely unprompted, or even on first request. How do you go about it @Bingo-Player ?

Definitely something I'm going to engage in in the near future.
 

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Just say something along the lines of "got any hot body pics? I love your curves!" say some corny **** like that...they will produce the goods...buahahhahaha
 

RangerMIke

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Never did this.... but I've never been a camera - picture guy. I would rather just experience life than record it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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EyeBRollin

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I don't talk on the phone or video chat, etc.. You shouldn't either. The proper response to any nude video or picture she sends is:

"Come thru."
 

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Getting nudes is another Buffer

Women will send nudes to those that they will not fvck. If you think you are the prize, will you give yourself to a woman in heat?

Edit - Women who send 'provoking' pictures are an entirely different story. They are your prime target
 

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Getting nudes is another Buffer

Women will send nudes to those that they will not fvck. If you think you are the prize, will you give yourself to a woman in heat?

Edit - Women who send 'provoking' pictures are an entirely different story. They are your prime target
sorry you've lost me there ?

how is a woman sending you naked pictures of herself a buffer lmao ?

your game has to be pretty tight to even get to the nude stage most guys these days cant make it past "hey"
 

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I prefer quality over quantity, having fewer girls touching and tasting right in front of me. Everybody to his own.
 

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sorry you've lost me there ?

how is a woman sending you naked pictures of herself a buffer lmao ?

your game has to be pretty tight to even get to the nude stage most guys these days cant make it past "hey"
Lolz
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bayne05

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Interest level is the main key, the more she likes you the more likely you'll successfully get nudes on request.

A method that seems to work for me to start a nude pic exchange is when she asks me to send her my pics(IOI) I'll say "with clothes on or naked?", of course she'll start picturing me naked ;) 90% of the time she answers with "both" then I only send the clothed ones, but then she'll ask for the naked ones and that's when I say she has to do the same. Matter of fact I've gotten a few lays from doing this without even sending the naked pics.
 

The Duke

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If you are doing it right, you won't even have to ask for pics!....and you won't have to send any pics of you.

Turn her on with your words and connect thru how you make her feel. Put her in a state of mind that she wants to submit to your desire. It only takes a small investment to get her talking and opening up. The majority of the time, women need a mental connection to be sechsual. The most powerful sexual organ is the mind and this is where the flower blossoms for her.

Bingo Player- just sending a girl some pics of your nice body might work sometimes, but there is a better way and its what I described above. This is why you aren't as successful as much as you would like. You aren't doing it. Stop thinking that the methods that turn a guy on will work on a woman. They don't most of the time.
 

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I've recently developed a taste for getting nudes off chicks

don't know why but there's something about making a chick strip for me on camera that gets me going its different to porn because I actually know the girls personally

just wondering if anyone else has a similar interest and if so what methods you use to get your nudes

I train hard in the gym & have a good body so I usually start with a few topless selfies and then build from there which usually works but chicks can sometimes be hard work or stubborn so just wondering if anyone's got any other methods they would like to share
Shrug, never did much for me. I know I'll see them naked in person. If they feel like sending me a pic or two then so be it, but it doesn't do much for me.
 
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