"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Now!

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What do you have as far as life goes? NOW!

You have this moment. So, stop sulking and turn your life around by preparing in the now for the future by making every moment count. Start using the time you have NOW to do the things you were hoping to do later.

Live life NOW!

Don't put off working on your inner man. Start NOW. Don't wait to make new friends. Do it NOW! Don't wait to talk to a beautiful woman. Stop thinking about it and, do not worry about any outcome. Live in the moment. Do it NOW!

Don't wait for anything. If you don't have the means to do whatever it is that you want to do then START looking for those means. Accept that you don't have the means and go do something about it NOW!

Tomorrow will not ever come, but you will always have today. If you live your life the way you want to, then you have made no mistakes and nobody can tell what's wrong with it. It's your life.

Live it NOW!

Find your joy in life. Find what makes you tick. Don't fill your mind with utter disappointment and gloom. Stop dwelling on the past and stop anticipating the future. Prepare for it NOW.

Live NOW!

Start making yourself happy this very moment. Start being fulfilled this very moment. Look deep down inside yourself for your answer and be decisive right NOW! By living NOW, you're making great memories for later, and you can look back on a happy, fulfilled life.

LIVE LIFE NOW!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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True dat.

Someones just read The Power Of NOW it seems :p

It might seem too simple but in all rings with truth? How many of us actually live in the moment? How much time do we waste regretting the past or hoping for the future? At some point we have to realize that life foesn't work like a holywood movie, there is no happy ending. There is only now.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This is an easy read, but!!

You got to look into this and try to figure out why was it said. It is a little hard to realise something in 3 minutes if you have been doing it "wrong" your whole life.

So to those of you that this isn't obvious, read it again! Trice!

Later :D
 

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This is cliche dribble drabble. Come on, has anyone not heard this one a million times? It's basically a rehash of the old "No time like the present."
 

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2.0 said:
This is cliche dribble drabble. Come on, has anyone not heard this one a million times? It's basically a rehash of the old "No time like the present."
Your not living in the now, your looking back at the past and judging the present through a filter, therefore you do not truly see it. :p
 

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This is cliche dribble drabble. Come on, has anyone not heard this one a million times? It's basically a rehash of the old "No time like the present."
I'm hearing ya 2.0!

But this is for Maverick, and putting it into his words. Plus some people still don't get it.
 
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