"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Now!

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What do you have as far as life goes? NOW!

You have this moment. So, stop sulking and turn your life around by preparing in the now for the future by making every moment count. Start using the time you have NOW to do the things you were hoping to do later.

Live life NOW!

Don't put off working on your inner man. Start NOW. Don't wait to make new friends. Do it NOW! Don't wait to talk to a beautiful woman. Stop thinking about it and, do not worry about any outcome. Live in the moment. Do it NOW!

Don't wait for anything. If you don't have the means to do whatever it is that you want to do then START looking for those means. Accept that you don't have the means and go do something about it NOW!

Tomorrow will not ever come, but you will always have today. If you live your life the way you want to, then you have made no mistakes and nobody can tell what's wrong with it. It's your life.

Live it NOW!

Find your joy in life. Find what makes you tick. Don't fill your mind with utter disappointment and gloom. Stop dwelling on the past and stop anticipating the future. Prepare for it NOW.

Live NOW!

Start making yourself happy this very moment. Start being fulfilled this very moment. Look deep down inside yourself for your answer and be decisive right NOW! By living NOW, you're making great memories for later, and you can look back on a happy, fulfilled life.

LIVE LIFE NOW!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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True dat.

Someones just read The Power Of NOW it seems :p

It might seem too simple but in all rings with truth? How many of us actually live in the moment? How much time do we waste regretting the past or hoping for the future? At some point we have to realize that life foesn't work like a holywood movie, there is no happy ending. There is only now.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

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This is an easy read, but!!

You got to look into this and try to figure out why was it said. It is a little hard to realise something in 3 minutes if you have been doing it "wrong" your whole life.

So to those of you that this isn't obvious, read it again! Trice!

Later :D
 

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This is cliche dribble drabble. Come on, has anyone not heard this one a million times? It's basically a rehash of the old "No time like the present."
 

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2.0 said:
This is cliche dribble drabble. Come on, has anyone not heard this one a million times? It's basically a rehash of the old "No time like the present."
Your not living in the now, your looking back at the past and judging the present through a filter, therefore you do not truly see it. :p
 

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This is cliche dribble drabble. Come on, has anyone not heard this one a million times? It's basically a rehash of the old "No time like the present."
I'm hearing ya 2.0!

But this is for Maverick, and putting it into his words. Plus some people still don't get it.
 
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