Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Now who ever picks up the most women on this forum should post there system for picking up women !

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Now who ever picks up the most women on this forum should post there system for picking up women, then we can field test it and see what results we get ?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My system is to fvck the system. I tried routines and doing X, Y and Z to pick up women, none of it with any overwhelming effect. What did work was dropping all of that nonsense, not giving a fvck, not trying and taste the freedom in it. Then all of a sudden they come at you all over the place. Like cats, if you try petting them they ignore you and walk away, when you don't bother then those fvckers jump onto your lap wanting you to pet them.

Turn the tables, have them try pick you up instead. Apparently it intrigues them when a guy isn't so eager, they want what they can't easily get.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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“Spray and pray”. I’m good looking and smart, so I just go after tons of girls and then end up with a decent batch. If I can’t get somewhere interesting conversation-wise within the first minute I just walk away. I probably approach more than 10 girls per outting. Still need a few beers to be effective but I’m gonna be off alcohol for the next 6 months so I’ll have to adapt.
 

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Just be a man and look them in their eyes. Find the ones that hold eye contact with you, its that simple
 

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majority of chicks are eager to bang lil pump, know this, man.
 

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Everyone will be a little different but this tends to be my pattern -

1. Initiate contact within the first 5 seconds (but do this for everyone, not just hot girls)

2. Talk in a manner like you are in the club or store etc for YOU (not for her) Your paths just "happened" to have crossed

3. If convo goes well and she responds to teasing.. get the number/fb and LEAVE. Dont hang around her, dont buy her a drink etc

4. Shoot a text in the morning.

Im not saying thats the best method out there but its good for low-to-medium confidence levels
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Now who ever picks up the most women on this forum should post there system for picking up women, then we can field test it and see what results we get ?
Yes, the decade +/- of chain gunning cold approach and swipe right + takin my **** out should be gifted with all lessons to a lazy slob.

Grow a pair. I blame low testosterone.
 

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My system is to fvck the system. I tried routines and doing X, Y and Z to pick up women, none of it with any overwhelming effect. What did work was dropping all of that nonsense, not giving a fvck, not trying and taste the freedom in it. Then all of a sudden they come at you all over the place. Like cats, if you try petting them they ignore you and walk away, when you don't bother then those fvckers jump onto your lap wanting you to pet them.

Turn the tables, have them try pick you up instead. Apparently it intrigues them when a guy isn't so eager, they want what they can't easily get.
This happens to be my tactic as well. And it works wonders for me
 
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My system is to fvck the system. I tried routines and doing X, Y and Z to pick up women, none of it with any overwhelming effect. What did work was dropping all of that nonsense, not giving a fvck, not trying and taste the freedom in it. Then all of a sudden they come at you all over the place. Like cats, if you try petting them they ignore you and walk away, when you don't bother then those fvckers jump onto your lap wanting you to pet them.

Turn the tables, have them try pick you up instead. Apparently it intrigues them when a guy isn't so eager, they want what they can't easily get.
You're missing part of the story here. You have the right attitude, but unless you are some kind of Chad, you don't just stop trying and suddenly have a bunch of girls trying to pick you up. You are either still cold approaching, and maybe even getting numbers, but not pursuing (in which case you have already expressed interest). Or you are putting yourself in situations where there are a lot of women around to interact with (either by happenstance or intentionally).

If you really didn't care at all, you wouldn't even bother talking to them. It's like some guys here, they say their method is to ignore women and they come out of the woodwork. But that doesn't really explain what they are doing. To do that they have to be displaying high status at the very least (unless they are Chad, like I said).
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mostly but not exclusively from either one of these;

1. For women age 18-24, from university or college seminars/talks.

2. For women age 24 and above from other public engagements.

3. Just plain cold approaches.
 

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Mostly but not exclusively from either one of these;

1. For women age 18-24, from university or college seminars/talks.

2. For women age 24 and above from other public engagements.

3. Just plain cold approaches.
I think you owe me 6 pictures. Scared?
 

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I think you owe me 6 pictures. Scared?
The last time we "showed" pictures of women, you took samples of pictures from a hookers site.

And those dark fat ugly chicks were just plain revolting.

Scared ? Hardly, more like once bitten, twice shy syndrome.
 

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The last time we "showed" pictures of women, you took samples of pictures from a hookers site.

And those dark fat ugly chicks were just plain revolting.

Scared ? Hardly, more like once bitten, twice shy syndrome.
What are you talking about? I just showed you a picture of an attractive girl from Bumble that wanted to go out with me that I didn't feel like going out with.

I turn down girls hotter than you even get in the first place.

And if you want me to show pictures of 100+ college aged "Sugar Babies," I've been with, I could do that too.

Let me guess, you're gonna tell me these girls are ugly too, right?
 

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Do we not already have Game?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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