You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
They are hard to pick up but only a small number of them is necessary to say that you dated "tons" of girls.sleep with fat girlz
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
They still neg high LMS guys who arent active in the game.The system is to have an higher LMS or if you are fine for short term only to find ways to fake it...which is basically what "game" is.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Yes, the decade +/- of chain gunning cold approach and swipe right + takin my **** out should be gifted with all lessons to a lazy slob.Now who ever picks up the most women on this forum should post there system for picking up women, then we can field test it and see what results we get ?
for me it is... but everyone isn't handsome like me, so I hear youNo, not in my opinion. Not that simple.
This happens to be my tactic as well. And it works wonders for meMy system is to fvck the system. I tried routines and doing X, Y and Z to pick up women, none of it with any overwhelming effect. What did work was dropping all of that nonsense, not giving a fvck, not trying and taste the freedom in it. Then all of a sudden they come at you all over the place. Like cats, if you try petting them they ignore you and walk away, when you don't bother then those fvckers jump onto your lap wanting you to pet them.
Turn the tables, have them try pick you up instead. Apparently it intrigues them when a guy isn't so eager, they want what they can't easily get.
You're missing part of the story here. You have the right attitude, but unless you are some kind of Chad, you don't just stop trying and suddenly have a bunch of girls trying to pick you up. You are either still cold approaching, and maybe even getting numbers, but not pursuing (in which case you have already expressed interest). Or you are putting yourself in situations where there are a lot of women around to interact with (either by happenstance or intentionally).My system is to fvck the system. I tried routines and doing X, Y and Z to pick up women, none of it with any overwhelming effect. What did work was dropping all of that nonsense, not giving a fvck, not trying and taste the freedom in it. Then all of a sudden they come at you all over the place. Like cats, if you try petting them they ignore you and walk away, when you don't bother then those fvckers jump onto your lap wanting you to pet them.
Turn the tables, have them try pick you up instead. Apparently it intrigues them when a guy isn't so eager, they want what they can't easily get.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I think you owe me 6 pictures. Scared?Mostly but not exclusively from either one of these;
1. For women age 18-24, from university or college seminars/talks.
2. For women age 24 and above from other public engagements.
3. Just plain cold approaches.
The last time we "showed" pictures of women, you took samples of pictures from a hookers site.I think you owe me 6 pictures. Scared?
What are you talking about? I just showed you a picture of an attractive girl from Bumble that wanted to go out with me that I didn't feel like going out with.The last time we "showed" pictures of women, you took samples of pictures from a hookers site.
And those dark fat ugly chicks were just plain revolting.
Scared ? Hardly, more like once bitten, twice shy syndrome.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.