"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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now THIS is the ultimate AFC example

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This was originally in mature man - I thought you could get a laugh over here

http://youtube.com/watch?v=qszSLGMRKkI

this is everything that is wrong with men today. im sure the dad thinks he's doing his son a favor and doesn't realize he is ruining his son's head. he's filling it will such utter bullsh*t that this guy one day is going to be 40, divorced and suicidal.

and the poor guy, he's not ugly, he could be getting tons of p8ssy if he wanted to.

now who knows, maybe they were just doing this for attention and to get on tv.

either way, its scary that a man would raise his son that way.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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LOL

Poor guy, his Dad screwed him for life. Bet it doesn't last.
 

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LOL Look at the comments some girls left...

" I'd give anything to find a guy like him who loves me and respects me that much. That's what I pray for. "

" i loveee him <3333 and he was amazzing <3333 he deff should have made it"

" OMG when i watched this audition i just wanted to go there and marry him it is so refreshing to have a guy think like that guys always use the guy Xcuse to explain things they do he is the proof those Xcuse R BS "

:crackup: :rolleyes:
 

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Dongfu said:
This was originally in mature man - I thought you could get a laugh over here

http://youtube.com/watch?v=qszSLGMRKkI

this is everything that is wrong with men today. im sure the dad thinks he's doing his son a favor and doesn't realize he is ruining his son's head. he's filling it will such utter bullsh*t that this guy one day is going to be 40, divorced and suicidal.

and the poor guy, he's not ugly, he could be getting tons of p8ssy if he wanted to.

now who knows, maybe they were just doing this for attention and to get on tv.

either way, its scary that a man would raise his son that way.
I could understand the guy not sleeping with chicks; I could understand the father giving him that value. BUT the "first kiss at marriage" DOES strike me as taking a good basic idea (not sleeping around and waiting for a quality woman) WAY too far.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I already commented on the video on utube

that if someone who looks like him - cannot get girls...
Then the rest of us are fvcked!
 

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Girls are really stupid. A girl I was talking to the other day said, "you know what Mike, I just want a guy who sexually excites me. It doesn't matter if he's a jerk or a nice guy, or even if he hasn't kissed a girl before. If he makes me feel what I want to feel, I'll go for him." I applauded her for her honesty.

Girls are so f*cking stupid. I hate people who put comments like that. I wasted the first 18 years of my life succumbing to hopeless romanticism and only kissed one girl. When I was 9. In a game of truth or dare.

Blah, end of ranting.
 

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it must surely be a stunt to stand out from the crowd....
You can tell because the first thing he says to the judges is "I've never kissed a girl" - it seems irrelevant and unrelated to the audition. If he truly believed in no kissing before marriage he wouldn't be so keen to flaunt it everywhere...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I saw this on TV and totally thought it was AFC.

The principle behind it is alright, but it just isn't realistic
 

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It isn't uncommon for people who are very religious to not want to kiss a girl before they are married. I knew a few kids in HS who were like that. Needless to say my actions seriously morally opposed their beliefs.
 

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no
why the bloody hell would the USA need arranged marriages? This ain't India, bro, and even over there its decreasing.
 

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well he has to become socially active and start dating girls, unless he expects his soulmate to fall right out of the sky!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sad part is there are people like that out there who believe in soulmates and will cling onto the first girl that shows interest in them. The only difference between them and this guy is that this guy does it by choice-which is probably staged anyways-and the other AFC's are doing it because it's their last resort.
 
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