"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Now this is inspiring, 100 year old, marathon runner
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
And fathered children in his 90’s.
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Master Don Juan
tHe 76 year old guy that still runs marathons. So sudden
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Master Don Juan
Hi Hamarabimbi,
Interesting read,but I would observe,It is a wise Child that knows its Father LOL.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
I'm always in awe when I see a 60 or 70 year old Martial Arts Guru or Sifu making easy work when sparring with his students or some random practitioner who challenges him to a fight. It's not just the Physical obviously, it's the intangible Chi and spiritual vigor/wisdom they cultivated over the years.
It’s like their bodies may age, but their technique and awareness just keep getting sharper. That inner calm and energy is something I think a lot of us strive for, whether in martial arts or just life in general. Inspiring stuff.