Now that you can bang women without even going a date by inviting them over, will you ever go back?

[BackInTheGame78]

Its proof positive now that women will willingly come over without meeting you first if they are interested enough...will you ever go back??

Does this change the way dating works long term? Why should a guy spend money on a date when he can talk to them for a week and invite them over? Will this still hold when things open back up?

 

[CBear]

This has been mentioned before but it made me realize how repetitive and pointless dating can be compared to the much simpler quarantine way of doing things.

 

[Solomon]

This is something I have been doing for years albeit not with every single girl....in my experience girls who like you will make it super easy

However this week I was 0 for 2....Had 2 chicks over my house and the didn't bang needless to say...I gotta go back to the drawing board

 

[skinnyguy]

It’s less risky to invite her over right away than to take her on a date. If you take her out in a date or multiple dates she can just say out of the blue that there wasn’t any “chemistry” and leave you with nothing to show for it.

You can take her on a date but you better escalate FAST or else you will probably get nothing. I truly think that women view guys who take them out on dates to get to know them as simps.
Meanwhile she’s banging Chad who never took her on any dates.

 

[Robert28]

I’m sorry but I’m not inviting some strange ***** to my house before I have met her at least once. I don’t want her knowing where I live, I don’t know if she’s a thief, I don’t know if she will tell the local drug dealer she’s been banging where I live so he and his homies can come rob me later. That’s not a risk I’m willing to take. I’m fine going out for a drink on my terms, I can escalate just fine.

 

[MrWood]

topic has been my MO for the last 10yrs,
dates were coffee/wine (then to my place)

many were women traveling to see me also to stay the weekend, all were also "first dates" (10-15 or so over the years)
others (about 10) were met online before traveling to their country for business (direct meeting to da room)

I have no idea what "dating" or going on dates to get a girl is all about

 

[Focal core]

Wtf, men and women in country got to stay in the jail if they were catch travelling not more than few miles at this point of time.. Are you guys saying that youre not in quarantine at this point of time? Which continent are doing this? Madagascar?

 

[Solomon]

topic has been my MO for the last 10yrs,
dates were coffee/wine (then to my place)

many were women traveling to see me also to stay the weekend, all were also "first dates" (10-15 or so over the years)
others (about 10) were met online before traveling to their country for business (direct meeting to da room)

I have no idea what "dating" or going on dates to get a girl is all about

If you taking girls to coffee/wine technically you're taking her out on a date

Befor ROna I was really killing it on Hinge getting girls to my place now? not so much

 

[Visionist]

If you absolutely must "date" keep it as simple as possible. A walk by the river or in the park. If she likes you she'll be giddy at the prospect of sharing a 2 Dollar ice cream with you. Giddy. Then take her to yours ("come and see my sneaker collection"...) and fvck her brains out.

That's how I first got laid, with no experience and no "game". It came completely naturally to me. I could have done so earlier with another girl who was happy to come straight round my house after I cold approached her. Some game there would have helped.

Of course I don't do online. I only meet girls out in the field. I don't specifically go searching for them either. If I meet a girl, cool. If I don't, cool.

 

[Who Dares Win]

I believe the best solution is to get the best out of the two options.

You plan a date that doesnt require too much money and too much time and try to get straight to the point.

Inviting a stranger at home is riskful and you may find yourself uninterested and willing to cut it short while a date that requires time and money could have a low cost-benefits ratio.

I totally support the coffee date, possibly not too far from where you live in case the flakes or doesnt match the requirement and you have to leave...btw I only settle same moment date, advance planning died in the mid 00s when women started flaking.

 

[corrector]

Yeah so if you are wired to take a woman out on dates to make memories that include scenes of different locations then it is better to watch a nice movie solo because the modern woman does not deserve this by the sounds of this. It has to be fulfilled by the next tier down that does not need her. This probably explains why movie or travel videos have taken off in interest over meeting anyone.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I enjoy dating.