"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally Posted by Desdinova
Yes. But what I'm talking about here is how women and men generally try to understand each other. A man will try to figure out how a woman's logic works. But her logic will NOT work when emotion overrides it. Example: A woman says she loves her boyfriend, but then she fvcks another guy. There's absolutely no logic there - she says she lover her man, but she isn't true to her word. The answer: She became attracted to another man, so attracted that her boyfriend didn't matter at that point in time. Her emotions override her logic.

schttrj: there is a logic here and we are fool that we do not understand it. It is that she has found a better person that can satisfy her needs or wishes better than this man.

actualy i don't think there is logic here because she is acting on a feeling that she could and probably will later regret. Or realize later that she didn't feel that way it was an idea of an image of a guy she met and had a fling with and later realize thats not him. or maybe for a brief moment she wasn't thinking about what a d1ck he is and focusing on his few good traits in the moment
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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sosilky said:
Originally Posted by Desdinova
Yes. But what I'm talking about here is how women and men generally try to understand each other. A man will try to figure out how a woman's logic works. But her logic will NOT work when emotion overrides it. Example: A woman says she loves her boyfriend, but then she fvcks another guy. There's absolutely no logic there - she says she lover her man, but she isn't true to her word. The answer: She became attracted to another man, so attracted that her boyfriend didn't matter at that point in time. Her emotions override her logic.

schttrj: there is a logic here and we are fool that we do not understand it. It is that she has found a better person that can satisfy her needs or wishes better than this man.

actualy i don't think there is logic here because she is acting on a feeling that she could and probably will later regret. Or realize later that she didn't feel that way it was an idea of an image of a guy she met and had a fling with and later realize thats not him. or maybe for a brief moment she wasn't thinking about what a d1ck he is and focusing on his few good traits in the moment
i see where u r coming from. well prolly, u r corrct. she is acting on her emotions, ya. so, it can be said that attraction depends on how we feel of the other person, then. so only emotions here. but actually i was looking at the bigger picture and was seeing the general logic that if she feels her emotional need is being fulfilled, she is going for that. if she is not going, she is stuck up within the social matrix. ok, must admit im a bit confused here. and do check my thread 'nothing new'... i want u guys to please advise me on that.
 
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