"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally Posted by Desdinova
Yes. But what I'm talking about here is how women and men generally try to understand each other. A man will try to figure out how a woman's logic works. But her logic will NOT work when emotion overrides it. Example: A woman says she loves her boyfriend, but then she fvcks another guy. There's absolutely no logic there - she says she lover her man, but she isn't true to her word. The answer: She became attracted to another man, so attracted that her boyfriend didn't matter at that point in time. Her emotions override her logic.

schttrj: there is a logic here and we are fool that we do not understand it. It is that she has found a better person that can satisfy her needs or wishes better than this man.

actualy i don't think there is logic here because she is acting on a feeling that she could and probably will later regret. Or realize later that she didn't feel that way it was an idea of an image of a guy she met and had a fling with and later realize thats not him. or maybe for a brief moment she wasn't thinking about what a d1ck he is and focusing on his few good traits in the moment
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sosilky said:
Originally Posted by Desdinova
Yes. But what I'm talking about here is how women and men generally try to understand each other. A man will try to figure out how a woman's logic works. But her logic will NOT work when emotion overrides it. Example: A woman says she loves her boyfriend, but then she fvcks another guy. There's absolutely no logic there - she says she lover her man, but she isn't true to her word. The answer: She became attracted to another man, so attracted that her boyfriend didn't matter at that point in time. Her emotions override her logic.

schttrj: there is a logic here and we are fool that we do not understand it. It is that she has found a better person that can satisfy her needs or wishes better than this man.

actualy i don't think there is logic here because she is acting on a feeling that she could and probably will later regret. Or realize later that she didn't feel that way it was an idea of an image of a guy she met and had a fling with and later realize thats not him. or maybe for a brief moment she wasn't thinking about what a d1ck he is and focusing on his few good traits in the moment
i see where u r coming from. well prolly, u r corrct. she is acting on her emotions, ya. so, it can be said that attraction depends on how we feel of the other person, then. so only emotions here. but actually i was looking at the bigger picture and was seeing the general logic that if she feels her emotional need is being fulfilled, she is going for that. if she is not going, she is stuck up within the social matrix. ok, must admit im a bit confused here. and do check my thread 'nothing new'... i want u guys to please advise me on that.
 
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