"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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now that she's attached....

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ok what the hell do you guys do with girls once u sleep with them for awhile and they get so attached to you? it started off with just sex then she tried to progress it into a relationship and i guess i let her sort of think it was by not tellin her about the other girls im dealing with and being really friendly and stuff.. i guess im asking how you can avoid hurting girls feelings too much when they've grown attached to you and you know they're just temporary?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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No, hanging out with her less is only going to hurt her more.

There isn't anything you can do about it now. You've already got her attached to you and expecting something more than just casual sex. All you can do now is be perfectly honest with her and tell her you don't want a relationship but you'd like to continue dating her.

NEXT TIME...*always* make sure you know what you want before you get started. And when you've met a girl you like, make sure she knows what page you're on. You'll probably lose half of the chicks you're after, do to them "not being like that" and wanting an LTR ultimately, but you won't have to deal with all of the headaches and disaster recovery after they've realized you've led them on. I am always honest from the beginning. My orgasm is never worth the price of hurting somebody and having to deal with that responsibility when there are pleanty of girls that want the same things as I do.
 
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quality advice blitz.. thanks man.. it kinda sucks to give up pvssy but its definately the right thing to do in the end
 
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Hell no, do her as much as you can. Girls nowadays have no sense of what rejection is. Let her feel her own demise so that she will at least feel sympathy for the next guy that wants to hook up with her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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