"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Now that i got her how do i get rid of her?

AnkleBreaker

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We have been together for like 2 months and im gettin really bored she calls me everyday i ignored her for like 3 days and she left me a voice mail saying blah blah youll call me when you miss me in a really mean angry voice.

Then the next day she said she was sorry and to call her when i wanted to lol. Of course i havent yet and she calls me 4 times today like an hour apart from each other i dont answer.

What really made me wanna break up with her is im way better looking then she is but she's a great girl and every time we go sumwher thers all these chicks hotter then her checkin me out.

Like for example i live a couple of blocks away from a Basketball court and i play ther all the time so i was walkin over ther and about to cross the street when these 2 really hot chicks stop at the stop sign. One of them just kept on starin at me with this big smile and i was like ooook?

And i did the custamary brotha man head nod to say hi they pull off and i start walkin then 2 minutes later they pull up beside me and ask if i wanna ride i say yea and get in they ask me my name blah blah and all this time that one chick just keeps checkin me out head to toe.

So they drop me off and ask if i wanted to go clubin with them i say i dont maybe i got plans today and get both ther numbers.

Now i dont wanna hurt her by just saying its over cya when i cya you know? Cause i know she has really deep feelings for me


What do i do?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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AnkleBreaker

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Cause i did like her but not anymore she's too clingy always on me **** i need space. ill just do it already thnx for nuthin
 

DJ_Dork

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you don't wanna hurt her cause she has deep feelings for you? are you some girlie man? if you want off, meet in person and OFF IT.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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AnkleBreaker

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Well i did it she kept asking me why i wanted to break up and that she didnt want too.

She really wanted a reason i couldnt give her one she talkd to me for about an hour trying to convince me not to break up with her crying and all this stuff then i said i gotta go and she said **** you and thats it i guess.
 
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