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[LearningSlowly]

So my girlfriend broke up with me. It was over some stupid, unfaithful **** I did (a girl texted the wrong number, I started near-sexting with her, wanted tit pics). She insisted that counted as cheating. Maybe she was just waiting for her chance to dump me. So we broke up.

I deleted her number, deleted our texts, and accepted that I would never speak to her again. Surprisingly easy.

Maybe you guys will get some field reports as I refocus my style, refocus my lifestyle and find a new chick (or a few).

 

[NorwegianDJ]

Onto New Adventures!

 

[White Boy]

She got mad over a really dumb thing in my opinion.

Like NDJ said, on to bigger and better things

 

[Skyline]

So my girlfriend broke up with me. It was over some stupid, unfaithful **** I did
(a girl texted the wrong number, I started near-sexting with her, wanted tit pics). She insisted that counted as cheating. Maybe she was just waiting for her chance to dump me. So we broke up.

It seems like a reasonable reason to me. I mean you asked this girl for nudes/sex basically and you knew. It doesnt't matter if she messages you first you were already with someone.
That IS considered cheating. You ****ed up dude. You should of either ignored her or told her that you were with someone so she needed to back off. For all you know, your girl might of even set this up to test your loyalty. You failed it.

 

[LearningSlowly]

No, it wasnt set up. I did tell the girl to **** off when I knew she had a wrong number, I said it a bunch of times but she kept texting back and I was feeling ****y.

I knew it was the wrong thing to do. That's why I confessed it to my girl. I believe I stuck to my values and my honesty and willingness to repent should have been enough to keep us together.

I do know I was wrong, but I'm positive I was right by being honest. Never be unfaithful and never lie to your partner. I achieved one not the other.

 

[Skyline]

, I said it a bunch of times but she kept texting back and I was feeling ****y.

I knew it was the wrong thing to do. That's why I confessed it to my girl. I believe I stuck to my values and my honesty and willingness to repent should have been enough to keep us together.

I do know I was wrong, but I'm positive I was right by being honest. Never be unfaithful and never lie to your partner. I achieved one not the other.

Just because you confessed to it does not make it right. It does show you are not a liar but that's about it. You violated her trust and thats what shes upset about.
I agree you guys should have talked about it instead of just ending it but as of now, she does not trust you. Even if you did confess, what good is that to her if she can't trust you?

 

[LearningSlowly]

Are you trying to teach me something I know already? Are you saying how you would never cheat? I understand what I did and I have better perspective than you on exactly how wrong an action it was. Being unfaithful is a wide spectrum and this is relatively tame.

I understand your position and hers.

 

[Skyline]

Are you trying to teach me something I know already? Are you saying how you would never cheat? I understand what I did and I have better perspective than you on exactly how wrong an action it was. Being unfaithful is a wide spectrum and this is relatively tame.

I understand your position and hers.

I'm not trying to teach you anythig. I'm simply stating from her standpoint based on the facts you presented. You seem to know what you are doing though, but hey we may or may not learn something new.

I initially did not mean to be offensive in any way.

 

[AlexLefty]

Ooooh yeah. I'm proud of your conviction to move on. BUT, realize that you WILL probably talk to her again. Maybe in a week, or a month, or a year - just be sure you're ready to handle it when/if she tries to talk to you again.

For example: My ex of like 8 months, or maybe its been a year idk, called me 2 times the other night. I didn't answer.

 

[Nino-Tk]

On to the next one player.

 

[NorwegianDJ]

Like NDJ said, on to bigger and better things

Lol BBW