So this ex wife and your sons mom sre two different women?
Talk about your ghosts from Chrismas past......
Same advise i gave you about your sons mom. Friend zone her or ignore her. Don't go there. When chicks come back it is never good.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Now it's the ex wife!!
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Talk about your ghosts from Chrismas past......
Same advise i gave you about your sons mom. Friend zone her or ignore her. Don't go there. When chicks come back it is never good.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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HaHaHa
Yep. Two different women. Explaining all the details of these two stories is beyond the scope of this site, believe me.
I threw that letter away and didn't answer it.
My son's mom is being all flirty with me one minute, then all cold as steel the next. I see my son fairly often so I see her often as well. Like I said, she makes me dinner and all. I'm cordial towards het. She's my son's mom and I'm not a d!ck. But I'm still thinking WTF?!!