"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ok, i met this girl through a coworker 3 months ago. It was awesome. we started seeing each other a lot and well, there were happy endings.

Anyway, i started seeing another friend of the coworker. We hit it off pretty well as well and the next thing you know, we again have happy ending... she moved in with me. Anyway, now, here's the problem.

The first girl asked my coworker and myself to have dinner tonight and invite her friend too. ehm...

what to do? lol... i'm screwed... if i come back tomorrow without a penis, call the cops...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Which of these coworkers is the girl that you've been pining over?

I think you've got some serious issues and you need to get over them before you can have a healthy relationship with women. Right now it appears you jump in too deep.

If you are serious about your personal growth and having real succes with women, you need to do some soul searching and find out why it is that you are acting this way.

Or you can continue on this path, have multiple unhealthy relationships and realize later in life that you threw away some great women because you weren't ready. Its your choice.
 
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macavoy, I just didn't end it with the first one properly...

I don't think i will ever invest so serious with another woman until i know for sure she's the right one for me. I intend to invest my time on a girl until I know she's the one. otherwise, i will not attach any emotion into her.

I did that with my ex and i got burned. I did that with my ex-wife and I got burned. I swear never to do it again irregardless of what anyone here may think of me.

nothing much happened today, I was just really awkward being there.

anyway, onwards and upwards.
 
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dannyegg4575 said:
macavoy, I just didn't end it with the first one properly...

I don't think i will ever invest so serious with another woman until i know for sure she's the right one for me. I intend to invest my time on a girl until I know she's the one. otherwise, i will not attach any emotion into her.

I did that with my ex and i got burned. I did that with my ex-wife and I got burned. I swear never to do it again irregardless of what anyone here may think of me.

nothing much happened today, I was just really awkward being there.

anyway, onwards and upwards.
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irregardless is not a word.
 
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actually it is, just rarely used.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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dannyegg4575 said:
Anyway, i started seeing another friend of the coworker. We hit it off pretty well as well and the next thing you know, we again have happy ending... she moved in with me.
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:nervous: :down:
 
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Your talking about multiple ex's and multiple coworkers and nobody can keep track of heads or tails. Can you give them fake names.
 
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dannyegg4575 said:
actually it is, just rarely used.
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It's starting to become accepted, but it's still incorrect. It's just that people insist on using it for some reason....dude it's a fvcking double negative!
 
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Sorry for the confusion. It was last minute where I had to go for dinner and needed a response asap.

ok, the story goes something like this. I met my coworker at this new job i'm at. her name is Joan.(names are fake btw) Joan and I hung out once in awhile and she introduced me to one of her friends, Maggie (who's not a coworker). So, I hooked up with Maggie and things went great. But then I realize, she isn't the right one for me. I didn't breakup with her properly. I just, disappeared. I know, it's wrong...

Anyway, later, Joan introduced me to Nancy (who's also not a coworker). We hung out, had lots of fun and she moved in. We were having a blast but Nancy knew about Maggie and me. The situation got awkward when Maggie invited all three of us to her house for dinner. So, yeah, I hope that cleared things up a little.

The whole time, Nancy never said a word. What's weird is, she was pretty cool until two days ago before we went for dinner. Now she's all quiet and sh>t...

keeping them both would've made a bigger mess dude. At least now i can say things didn't work out between Maggie and me.

it's ok guys. thanks for helping anyway. The drama is over and I'll move on.

I'm going to keep looking until I find the right woman. Until then, I'm just going to keep having fun.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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