Now I love my frend. how to ask for love?

[Bjerte]

I am come back to DJforums to say hello but with problem also.

I have good friend who is Yole and she come out with me all times to go look at movie's and art hallways and theter. It is like we date already but no kiss or sex and I donot know if she have love for me also like I have love for her.

I say how to make her into Bjerte's girlfriend? I ask her out but she think it is for friendship but if I go to kiss and she not love Bjerte then us friendship must die. I donot want.

I am the coward!

How to ask for her love and keep her to be friend if she say no?

I want sex with her also. hahahaha!

 

[Desdinova]

Hello again, Bjerte!

I ask her out but she think it is for friendship

It sounds as if you're in the "friendship zone" with her. In other words, she doesn't find you sexually appealing. There is an extremely small chance that you can turn a friendship into a relationship. It's not worth the hassle.

You're best off to find a new woman.

Also, have you read the DJ Bible yet?

 

[Bjerte]

I try to read djbible but for Bjerte it is hard my reading long English is not good.

I am sad if I am in friendchip zone because I want love. I am try to be nice man but this is why?

Can this change if I say I want sex?

 

[Skel]

both of you should get really drunk and then go for the kiss. If she pushes you away then you can blame it on the alcohol

 

[MetalFortress]

Maybe babelfish has a translator that can change the DJB into Icelandic.

Try asking on the LTR forum in my sig, as well.

 

[squirrels]

Tell her to squeeze your balls until you pass out. :crackup:

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Seriously, though, if you want to be her boyfriend, BEHAVE like her boyfriend. Touch her when you speak to her. Put your arm around her. When you look at her, look her in the eyes and hold the gaze knowingly. Smile. Speak to her in your romantic voice. Tease her.

Treat her like your girlfriend instead of like a friend, and see how she responds.

 

[penkitten]

Originally posted by Skel
both of you should get really drunk and then go for the kiss. If she pushes you away then you can blame it on the alcohol

hahaha it always works huh

 

[Fenderules]

Originally posted by squirrels
Tell her to squeeze your balls until you pass out. :crackup:

haha you crack me up!



welcome back Bjerte! i missed your posts. we need more like you.

your problem is simply right in front of you.....

"I am Coward"


had you not been a coward you would have kissed her already and would have known.




so the next time your on a date, try holding hands. Thats not as strong as a kiss so if she rejects you right then and there, you know she is not interested. If she holds hands, then you know!

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

How do you 'ask' for love?

On your hands and knees, groveling like a starving beggar wondering when the next crumb of her attention will indiscriminately fall from her table to the floor where you'll happily mouth the filthy ground to get to it before the other dogs do.





You NEVER ask for love. It's given or it isn't, now go grow a spine and 2 testicles.

 

[JT47319]

Go for drinks and isolate her somewhere.

Slowly amp up the seduction.

Kino, triangular gazing, smiling, and talk about something that you and her are passionate about.

GET HORNY.

And then convey that seductive vibe to her.

Touch her arm. Then brush the side of her face.

You don't lay the bomb on her, you HEAT HER UP slowly but surely so that she slowly but surely sees YOU in a sexual light.

She starts getting horny for YOU and is then wanting you to make that first kiss.

 

[DJ Hawtness]

It's obvious that you've had some great conversations with her. The best thing you can do is go for some nice, smooth, kino. Works everytime bro. :woo:

 

[coder]

Read This

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=43174&highlight=friend+zone