Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Noughts and Crosses

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Boner da Stoner

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lol I have social problems

For the last week I've been playing a special game of KINO BINGO.

Too lazyt to describe it, too much fun to describe.

All the girls I brought home this week were winners no matter what. I go home alone if I can't call bingo while I'm gaming her.

Even seeing their eyes light up when I tell them what their prize is is priceless(priceless is the word of the decade)
 

Bonhomme

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Not a bad idea. Except the game always ends up a tie.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by The_Shezzler
This is Field Tested by me
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if you win then she has to kiss you.




Or if she wins she can have the priveledge of giving me a kiss.
 

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This is an awesome tips. Has worked for me me many a time in the past.

Personally i think that it works better as an icebreaker when you first meet a girl. Being a social coward, i often use it as a wordless pick up.
 
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