"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Noughts and Crosses

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Boner da Stoner

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lol I have social problems

For the last week I've been playing a special game of KINO BINGO.

Too lazyt to describe it, too much fun to describe.

All the girls I brought home this week were winners no matter what. I go home alone if I can't call bingo while I'm gaming her.

Even seeing their eyes light up when I tell them what their prize is is priceless(priceless is the word of the decade)
 

Bonhomme

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Not a bad idea. Except the game always ends up a tie.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by The_Shezzler
This is Field Tested by me
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if you win then she has to kiss you.




Or if she wins she can have the priveledge of giving me a kiss.
 

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This is an awesome tips. Has worked for me me many a time in the past.

Personally i think that it works better as an icebreaker when you first meet a girl. Being a social coward, i often use it as a wordless pick up.
 
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